School Showers

[waterski]

Okay, so I'm going to be a Freshy soon and I'm going to do Soccer and at the school I'm going to, you shower after practice. But I don't know like should I just get out of the shower and dry off and change right there or should I go into a stall? And will people make fun of me because they think I'm big or small down there?? And what do you guys do if you get a boner if you're in the shower???

[cool7189403]

Personally, I don't mind coming out of the shower naked or in a towel, because there are no walls between the different showers, it's like a bunch lined up on the walls and in the middle and so i just change in front of everyone, if anything, they will make fun of you for hiding in the stall (and i hope they don't make fun of anyone at all) and if they say something about your size and you find it offensive, play the "Why are you looking there" card. If i get a boner in the shower, i just keep minding my own business, i've seen others just jack off and people watch them do it too. Nobody seems to mind.

[waterski]

Oh okay. Hahaha. Thanks! :) I'm just worried that people are going to make fun. :( I'm self conscious too. So..Lol. Thanks again! [=

[Kevwee]

Its really up to you. You can change right in front of them and dry off because, im sure most of the people there are gonna be scared to change to. Some people might poke fun if you are big or small but there are gonna be kids smaller and bigger than you down there so it doesnt matter what they say. If you get a boner down there you can hide it, but im sure you wont be the first one that has gotten a boner while being in the shower with other guys, theres probably also other people that are going to have one as well.

I guess what im trying to say is that dont really pay attention to what the other people say or think. :)

[waterski]

Okay. Hahha. I feel better now. :] Thanks for the replies. :)

[peaceloverugby]

While I hope they don't make fun of anyone, they will probably make fun of you for changing in a stall. Also, if you seem confident, you're less likely to get made fun of. We upperclassmen can smell fear ;)

And if anyone says anything about your junk, ask them why they're looking at it.

Hope this helps, and good luck with soccer and high school!

[waterski]

Hhaha. Okay. :)

[bowlheadhere]

You should just go out and change in the open. A lot of guys are already doing it, so there is nothing to be nervous about. I also think (well, at least at my school there were) there are rules they make saying that you cant go and change in the stalls.

If you are worried about what others might think of your build or size just put on a strong and confident face, and no one will bother you. When you show that you are mentally strong and confident, it sends unconcious messages to other males that they shouldn't pick on you. I mean, in the jungle lions show their self confidence. Do you think that if they were down and showed fear that they would be considered strong and the "king of the jungle"? You just have to become the king of that jungle!

If you get a boner, it is fine! There are a lot of teen guys in there and they understand that hormones are rushing through your body. Anyways, if you get a boner, most other guys will also (most guys are straight curious whether they admit it or not, therefore they will most likely get a boner if you have one).

Stand proud, and NOTHING can harm you! Just carry on as though nothing is happening... like you are just walking through the halls of your school!

[ninjaxorp]

don't worry about boners- somebody usually gets one every day, just laugh it off when people make fun of you and people won't remember the next day

if you get boners alot try showering with cold water... LOL, im serious it works!

if you are showering after sports practice you will probably be too tired to get a boner anyway,

i never get a boner after a long workout. but gym class....


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[Qwerty4]

i say "Who cares what other people thinks, Does it really matter?"

[bluestarkidd]

most of the other kids wont be looking at you as much as you think, theyre busy doing their own thing most of the time. but you can always carry a towel with you to the shower in case you get one. i did that, but never had to use it.

[YourFriend]

People shouldn't care about your size... If you feel uncomfortable with doing it, then don't.

[JackOfClubs]

If other people care about your size, its their problem. And at my school, you only have to take a shower if you want to.

[yuppies]

As it was suggested in another thread, if they make fun of you ask them why they were looking at your junk in the first place. Also if you have really good control, try to walk around with a semi-hardon to make it look bigger if you feel that you're small. If anything just say its cold in here and walk on. Your only 13/14 don't worry!

[Kinetic]

well if u feel that strongly i say bring sum trunks or something n shower n those... but if everyone else is nude and thats what u guys are doing then ehh jus do it once and ull be fine, u wont worry bout it anymore its kinda like jumping in a pool... its cold till ur in all the way... and if they take a look at ur junk then look at theirs >.>

[Blargy]

Be homeschooled. works for me.

Really, if I did go to public school, I wouldn't be worried, my body is fine other than;
1. I look anorexic, during the school year I get about 1-2 meals a day, just from laziness.
2. I have some weird stretch marks on my back from sitting oddly when I'm on the computer
3. I'm not very tan, sometimes I am though.
4. My ass isn't very hot. < Not gay, I just don't know if it is different or not.

BUT. 1-3 are shown when I take off my shirt, and no-one cares at all. And 4 is just like, yeah, "don't stare at my ass" if they say anything about it, which they probably wouldn't.

[ACQD139F83J]

Just change in the open. It's unlikely anyone will comment on your penis for fear of being called gay and/or perverted, though they could tease you for hiding it. If you start to get a boner, either jerk if you think it's acceptable, but I'd just distract myself with arithmetic or something similar...

[thiscityisdead]

Im a junior in highschool and we have to take showers after football, baseball, swimming, cross country practice, and the easiest thing for me is think of what your going to do after school and just get through your shower dont even worry bout other gus saying anything cuz their prolly thinking the same thing you are...and about the boner in the shower, ive never had that experience in the shower at school so i cant really help there. sorry bro =\ but hope i helped a little =]]

[gagemeaker]

do wat u do at home
if u get a boner just cover it up it happens to everyone
and dont stare at others 'junk'

[iceyfresh]

its up to you and not us if you wan't to change in a stall go for it i dont but thats just me