Mutual and Bj

[Kevwee]

Ok my friend and I talked about jerking each other off and possibly giving each other a bj for about a week even though we both know we are straight. Then at the end of the week we actually did it. We both had fun doing it and we thought it felt really good that we did it again the next day. But, now my friend says that he doesn't want to do it anymore. Is it ok that I kinda feel like disappointed that we can't do it anymore? Because I thought it was fun and I liked it.

[Loud1]

Ya it's ok. It could just be that it was sunnin that u and ur friend shared and u like it. He just might liked it too bt seen it as a little bit writes that you guys might keep doing it so he dosnt wantto anymore.. It's ok that you feel like that though. Bt don't it personal.

[tripolar]

Its fine to feel disappointed because you did something that you enjoyed and now its over. He probaley feels bad about it and that's why he doesn't want to but who knows you may do it again.

[danzama]

well, not sure if i can talk about this topic as i think it might be against the rules, but persistanse of somthing like thiss can destroy a friendship, BE CAEFUL

[cool7189403]

It's perfectly normal. You get BJ's from a guy or girl, and i'm almost sure it's the same sensation and feeling.

[computerwizard]

missing something that you enjoyed sharing with someone else and that made you feel good? perfectly normal, I'd say...

[Raynes]

It's perfectly natural, and it doesn't make you gay either. You linked that with a source of very extreme pleasure, and your body craves it. I just want to warn you about what might happen if you try to pressure him into doing it again. There is a good chance he might get angry and disassociate himself with you. I would venture to guess that your friend wants to do it again just as much as you do, but is afraid of being gay, or you thinking he is gay, or you two becoming gay, or any other combination of fears. It's harmless fun, but you should wear protection if you ever do it again in the future. Just because you guys are friends doesn't mean you tell each other the whole truth and nothing but the truth. :)

Blessed be.

[Kevwee]

It's perfectly natural, and it doesn't make you gay either. You linked that with a source of very extreme pleasure, and your body craves it. I just want to warn you about what might happen if you try to pressure him into doing it again. There is a good chance he might get angry and disassociate himself with you. I would venture to guess that your friend wants to do it again just as much as you do, but is afraid of being gay, or you thinking he is gay, or you two becoming gay, or any other combination of fears. It's harmless fun, but you should wear protection if you ever do it again in the future. Just because you guys are friends doesn't mean you tell each other the whole truth and nothing but the truth. :)

Blessed be.

Yeah because we talked about it again and he said he doesn't wanna do it again but I kinda know he does wanna do it again because he told me he liked it so much. He also told me that he would just think of as best friends and it wouldnt get like that.

[mitch17]

i dont think it makes u gay. in fact its perfectly normal to be bummed. its something you liked so its not weird at all. i wud prolly be bummed to.so dont worry ur normal bro

[NMon]

It's perfectly natural, and it doesn't make you gay either. You linked that with a source of very extreme pleasure, and your body craves it. I just want to warn you about what might happen if you try to pressure him into doing it again. There is a good chance he might get angry and disassociate himself with you. I would venture to guess that your friend wants to do it again just as much as you do, but is afraid of being gay, or you thinking he is gay, or you two becoming gay, or any other combination of fears. It's harmless fun, but you should wear protection if you ever do it again in the future. Just because you guys are friends doesn't mean you tell each other the whole truth and nothing but the truth. :)

Blessed be.

You don't need protection unless one of you has a disease that can be transmitted sexually, which is highly unlikely.


Anyway, It's okay for you to feel like that. Your friends is simply afraid of being gay, that's all. He seems like he would get mad if you simply tried talking about it, so I'd avoid the subject for a while. But understand being gay is not just being sexually attracted to a man, but mentally and emotionally too.

[mosaic.]

Well, you ought to respect his decision. In the long run, it might be better for your friendship, too.

Experimentation is just that. Experimentation.

Thank god my friend kept wanting to do it though. Haha.

[kenshin8106]

if u did it again it means he liked it hes just ashamed that he would do it and he's not gay, just give him time and talk about it a little bit with him and see how he reacts when u bring it up

[hiker1992]

It's entirely normal to feel a bit of longing for that. I mean, it's something new and different, and something you obviously enjoyed, so to feel a little disappointed it's over is only natural. Like it's already been said, persistance can cause troubles, if you haven't spoken to him about it yet, I would. If you have and he's given a firm no, I wouldn't continue discussing it, clearly it's made him uncomfortable or something, and he's just not wanting to keep at it.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads, this one is over 2 months old.
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