Boyfriend help

[Luckylee218]

Ok here it is. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. Before we started going out we were best friends. We talked, we laughed, we shared problems. We were best buds for 2 years. Then after we started out we went on a feild trip with our youth group we had tons of fun and we played vidio games until it was late. When we got tired we fell asleep in the back of the bus. Those were the good times. Now he is too hyperactive at times and then he seems to just get angry over things and i don't know why. He started wresting, although I objected to it but after watching a game or two and seeing how much he enjoyed the sport I decided to let him play so I supported him. But ever since then we have been talking less and less. He has also been very rude to me. We broke up once and then got back together 3 days later. I'm worried that he doesn't really care about me any more because he has started to poke me and when I tell him to stop he just continues. :( He also has been randomly poking my best friend as well thinking that it is funny that she has pressure points. When i tell him to stop he just replies saying that i dont let him have any fun. What should I do?

[Joe]

I think you should sit down to him and talk.. theres not much YOU can do. but you can reccomend to a reletive about his problem :) But I'm sure he will get back to normal soon

[Luckylee218]

I hope so... I really miss his old self. I just don't quite know how to tell him.

[Joe]

Tell him slowly and hope he catches on :)

[Luckylee218]

He better... (dang! I can't get into an angry mood like I ussualy can) Lol. I'm some what of an impatient girl. ^.^ I hope he listens. I just need to find the right time to tell him.

[Joe]

I wouldnt know how eaither if i was you. But i dont know his personality. Just tell him when you think its the best time. But don't be like RAGEING when you tell him, lol. OR, on a few occasions when he acts stupid, tell him to be serious. :P

[Luckylee218]

I don't... oh yea ok I will. ^.^7 Thank you for your advise.

[Joe]

;) happy to help

[Luckylee218]

Ok we ended up breaking up today. He was putting swiss cheese in everyones faces and totaly ignored me. He really didn't seem to care that I broke up with him though. But I say good riddens! Tomorow's going to be very interesting too. I think all of my friends are mad at him as well. It's going to be interesting because I kind of have to sit with him at lunch, it's where all of my friends sit. (it's a really big table)

[Jeff.R]

Yea he does, and it's a good thing that's over, he obviously didn't care too much anymore and you seem like a nice gal and diserve better.

[Luckylee218]

Yes... but I couldn't help thinking that it was long over. You see when he changed. That was when we really broke up. I was just to blind and just wished and hoped he would return. I didn't dump him. I dumped a stranger. He was the one who dumped me.

[wadeexpo]

im glad you seemed to have made the right decision...
maybe you can find someone who will treat you better

[krzwis]

i agree
you made a good dessision

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

Good for you, did you find out why he was doin it?