confused out of my mind..please experienced helpers

[tonv4]

hi, so recently i turned 18 and until now ive been living a normal horny 18 year old straight guy life. But now i dont really have any sexual feeling for any gender. I have always been really horny for girls and never thought of guys. I still dont think of guys and am 90% sure im not gay. (i always liked girls) Now im noticing my sex drive is really weak and im just not thinking about sex, but i know i like girls. Is this a temporary thing? puberty related? How come my best freind is boning his gf everynight and im not even horny?

could it be stress? self confidence issues?

Last night i had a girl in my basement for the first time, we cuddled half naked but she didnt want sex, i still couldnt get fully "hard", but that may have been due to the pot i smoked earlier.....why am i losing sex drive!?

[Grey fox]

The aforementioned pot?

Has anything traumatic happened to you in the past?

It's odd, maybe it's a change in hormone levels?

I've just turned 18 too, and actually i'm less interested in sex too, but that might be a sudden shock realisation that I ought to concentrate on exams...

And being completely and utterly in love with a guy who has a virtually non-existent sex drive... :(

[tonv4]

The aforementioned pot?

Has anything traumatic happened to you in the past?

It's odd, maybe it's a change in hormone levels?

I've just turned 18 too, and actually i'm less interested in sex too, but that might be a sudden shock realisation that I ought to concentrate on exams...

And being completely and utterly in love with a guy who has a virtually non-existent sex drive... :(


Well it could be the pot....today though i still dont feel that horny either..maybe im forcing it...maybe its not that important and im maturing...maybe the same goes for you??...i mean i would always think about sex before, so in terms of anything traumatic, i doubt it has much of an influence dont you think?

[Grey fox]

Maybe. I did have a bit of an epiphany moment and realise that thinking about sex every 3 seconds isn't going to get me any, it's (so far anyway) not that good really, and the realisation that it is the driving force between most if not all human actions and interactions. Basically i stopped caring so much, I still have really horny moments, but I think I can blame that on hormones more then anything else...

Does pot have long-term effects? It could take a while for any change from going cold-turkey to show up though...

[latinamocha]

i went though something like that before
and i quit boy friends, sex , masturbating
for about 2 months
but then i saw this video and i was instantly turned on i went 2 my bedroom and masturbated and had an amazing orgasm:lol:
i would say just take a little brake and at the end have one of the best orgasm in ur life {mabye} :P

[tonv4]

Maybe. I did have a bit of an epiphany moment and realise that thinking about sex every 3 seconds isn't going to get me any, it's (so far anyway) not that good really, and the realisation that it is the driving force between most if not all human actions and interactions. Basically i stopped caring so much, I still have really horny moments, but I think I can blame that on hormones more then anything else...

Does pot have long-term effects? It could take a while for any change from going cold-turkey to show up though...

see the thing is, thats not how i think at all. I was literally really horny 3 weeks ago and i know i can get sex if i wanted...like what happened last night to me..(then again it could have been the weed)..But i feel more over that i feel less of a man and im kinda confused as to why im not horny towards women as much as i used too....i have only guy freinds, but no gayness there..maybe ill stop jerking for a bit lol..im thinking i should get some horny goat weed? sounds a little drastic...as for weed? ive been smoking this summer, and in terms of long term effects..i feel just a little more tired the next day, but i function the same...it takes heavy usage for longterm effects

[Grey fox]

But i feel more over that i feel less of a man and im kinda confused as to why im not horny towards women as much as i used too....i have only guy freinds, but no gayness there..maybe ill stop jerking for a bit lol..

Maybe you have just refined your tastes in women? I'm not sure really at all what could be causing this, is it worth talking to your GP?

As for only having guy friends, do you want female friends?

Stopping masturbating for a while will probably help, there's no point doing it if you're not really in the mood....

[tonv4]

Maybe you have just refined your tastes in women? I'm not sure really at all what could be causing this, is it worth talking to your GP?

As for only having guy friends, do you want female friends?

Stopping masturbating for a while will probably help, there's no point doing it if you're not really in the mood....

yeah of course id like female friends, guess its a lil harder in the summer....i think your right...ill just quit till it feels right..are you feeling any better?

[drpepper21]

yall, dont be dumb. your just maturing. your body isnt a horny reck, because you are getting older. this is normal, and not everyone matures at the same rate. also, everyone will go through stages of sex drive levels, as the chemicals in your brain re-arrange, you will change a lot. it has nothing to do with pot. also, stop the pot. its not cool and it will ruin your life.