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soccer
August 16th, 2009, 12:48 AM
ok i recently strted to like this one girl.
my friend had a plan to see if she liked me too cause he thinks she does.
the same nite my friend was goin to ask her my ex strted tlking to me again and saying she still likes me and stuff.
i still do hav some feelings for her but i cant tell if its in a sister kinda way or what.
another thing is she broke up with me twice and told me she still likes me.
i need some reassurance if i should go bak out with her or see if this other girl likes me. (i hav feelings for them both)

Blue63
August 16th, 2009, 12:58 AM
Okay, this may sound harsh, bottom line, I really think your Ex is not good for you, period. She's broken up with you twice, she keeps coming back, something tells it's going to happen again. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I think you really need to put your romantic feelings for her, if there are any, in the past.

Where or not this other girl likes you, you should not do anything with your Ex. If the other girl likes you, go for her, and best of luck, so I hope things work out for you there =]

Sapphire
August 16th, 2009, 03:48 AM
Getting back with your ex won't do you any good. If you do go back to her then I can guarantee you that it will end in the not so distant future because that is the pattern with this girl. She says she likes you, you date, she breaks up with you, she then tells you that she likes you and the whole cycle starts over again.

It's good that you have found another girl you like. I wish you all the best with her.
It also shows that you are moving on from your last relationship - don't sacrifice that by dating her again.

Darkness
August 16th, 2009, 03:51 AM
If you ex broke up with you then went out with someone else she might just be lonely or on a rebound, not much us poor mortals can do... well you poor mortals ;).