I cant help thinking

[ViciousScheme]

That my girlfriend is having sex with someone else. I know that sounds harsh but im super paranoid about this. Whenever she goes away, she says "I miss you", then she never answers me for an hour and then makes up an excuse. Im not clingy or anything, but ive been with her long enough to see this pattern. How should I go about asking her if this is the case. She told me she has had sex before, but she said only once. I dont think I can trust her though. Am I just over-reacting or does anyone else think this sounds wack?

[Sapphire]

Has it ever crossed your mind that when she goes away and there is a gap of about an hour between some messages it could be because she genuinely was busy doing something innocent? Has it never crossed your mind that she could have genuinely got distracted when asked to do something like clear dishes, make a phone call etc?

Your assumption that she is having sex with someone because of this one hour gap between texts is ridiculous and goes to prove that you should not be in a relationship with her. Mutual trust is an imperative component to romantic relationships.

And so what if she's had sex once before?! It doesn't mean that she is now sex-crazed and will do anything she can to get it

[chairy]

well... it doesn't really matter how many times she had sex b4 i mean she didn't cheat on you!
u used to wear diapers wen u were a kid but that doesn't mean ur not a man now ... dun care bout the past n live ur life with her :)
bout the other part there's so many explanations for it maybe she's really bzy, maybe she can't be with you for a reason that can't be told, there's alot of maybes in here but the only way to know the truth is to talk to her bout how do you feel bout her n ask why she's doin this.
best luck :)

[Aneklusmos]

You. Are. Being Paranoid. Stop.

Seriously, she's almost certainly doing something that keeps her away from her cell phone or computer. You are sounding like the guy that girls are always talking about that are over-protective and jealous. I'm not trying to be mean here, just getting my point across.

[Aves]

Ur just being paranoid, stop worrying.