Really Confused.

[The Batman]

For a little over a year now I've been accepting that I'm homosexual, it's actually become something that I've come to love, but recently I've been having like old feelings for my exgf. I don't know how I feel about her, but like I do have some strong sexual feelings for her and like some emotional ones to. I don't care about the whole curious, hormones thing because really I'm past that. Just please tell me what you really think.

[nachtspiegel]

I honestly believe that sometimes, feelings can transcend sexual orientation.
I don't think it's completely impossible for an otherwise gay or otherwise straight person to fall for someone of the same sex.

You have my number.
Text me if you want...
Call me if you can.

[The Batman]

Thanks David and it's sorta what I was thinking because really she's the only girl that I have had these feelings for. When we were dating I didn't have any sexual feelings for her it just felt like love.

[The Joker]

As David said, some people are really so wonderful, your feelings for that one person can trascend your feelings for any other girls.

How long have you been feeling this?

[IAMWILL]

Not to be against your or annoying/trollish, but...

Have you ever considered that you only accepted homosexuality because you never found what you wanted in heterosexuality? It may be that you never found what you wanted, so you turned to something else, but now have noticed that this ex of yours is exactly what you wanted before. Not questioning yourself, just a theory.

[The Batman]

She really shouldn't be what I want she's loud, she's a bitch, my mom doesn't like her, and she's just a horrible person. I've had these feelings for years they would come and go I usually just figured it was because first love thing. A big reason I accepted my homosexuality is because I've never found a girl that I really wanted to like be with sexually it was just like, "hmm cute girl I guess i should have a crush on her." I just felt like all it was forced and that if it didn't work out I was hurt. Idk really it just gets more confusing especially considering she's not exactly heterosexual herself.

[Θάνατος]

Thomas maybe you are having the feeling because she is the only person that you have actually loved outside of your family members.

I often find feeling for exes when I am not in a relationship. You will get over the feelings in time. Some times though you never get over your first love. Hang in there if you still have these strong feelings for her maybe call or text her and try to be her friend still.

[The Batman]

We are actually best friends she knows everything about me except the s/h but she does know about VT, so it's not that we aren't friends. But I really do think that what you said could be my problem.

[MichaelAdams1993]

If what your asking is if it is wierd that you are homosexual yet have feelings for someone of the opposite sex then the answer is no. However, if these feelings are emotional AND physical (not one or the other) then you may not be gay. Remember, when trying to identify your sexuality you shouldn't think. "O, I don't have feelings for the opposit sex so I must be gay." You have to think, "Do I have feelings for the opposite sex?" Because not having feelings for a girl could just mean you haven't met the right one, not that you are gay. But if you feel for someone of the same sex, then you would be gay.

I hope this wasn't to confusing, if it was PM me and I will try to clear it up. :)

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think that maybe you are bi