Why?????

[Rmelnikas]

I am an average guy, not the most fittest and dont have alot of muscle, and quite a few pimples, it seems that none of the girls around me like me i want to find someone i can have a relationship with not just a 2 week relationship i want a relationship thats going to last a reasonable long time, im very shy as well so it doesn't help either but to me it seems like no one likes me and that im not going to find someone.:(:(


Plz help what can i do to make girls like me or take notice of me????

[ViciousScheme]

Its not really about the body, Im pretty much in the same boat as you. An outgoing personality will pull any girl in. (Unless their as shallow as a puddle) I won all my girls over with personality. Just listen to whatever she has to say. It will come in handy for the future. So pretty much, once you find a girl you like, listen to her, then put it into play (just don't eavesdrop) Ill give you an example from when I won my current girlfriend. She was talking in a group with me, she happened to mention she liked Purple roses, and when her birthday was. I played it out and she gave me, an almost stranger to her, a hug.

[Rmelnikas]

yeah i know what you mean mate i might try that thanks

[Grey fox]

The best thing is to be an optimistic opportunist. You never know where you might find love, seriously!

Also, shy guys are quite attractive, especially to girls who feel they want to make you happy.
As for none of the girls around you liking you, maybe you are looking in the wrong places?

[Aneklusmos]

Another thing to consider is if you really need a relationship. If your looking for someone to be a support for you, consider making some new friends. They often tend to last longer

[IAMWILL]

Be yourself, and don't be afraid to express your feelings. Girls shouldn't really care about looks, unless there is something seriously wrong, in which here there isn't, so really you have nothing to worry about.

[Rmelnikas]

thanks guys that really makes me fell heaps better.:D