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too_cute_for_you
August 15th, 2009, 04:05 AM
Ok, so i met this boy. The thing is...He lives in another state. I web cam with him and stuff. And i love him, alot. And he loves me. We have alot of things in common and hes not one of those jerks who thinks their so tough.
Now...we were talking one day and he said he really wanted to meet me in real life. So after a while of talking we agreed to meet at target ( lol ) and he actually came to my state, just to meet me. I had my first kiss with him too...He said he comes here sometimes to visit his cousin too so we would get to see eachother. And i never felt the way i feel now about anyone else...so i was wondering... Is it a good idea to go out with someone who lives in another state? thanks

Sapphire
August 15th, 2009, 04:19 AM
There is nothing wrong with having a long distance relationship. They are not something that everyone can handle but if you two can then there's no reason why you can't date each other.

wishuponastar
August 15th, 2009, 07:57 PM
I say go for it as long as u kno u can trust this guy when hes far away from u

Aves
August 15th, 2009, 10:28 PM
It's a good idea, if it's worked out so far.

Darkness
August 16th, 2009, 12:37 PM
Ha! Thats nothing I have friend how live over here in the U.K. and he's got engaged to a girl in Canada!
So so long as one of you will move to be with the other then there is no reason it won't work all the way!

Aneklusmos
August 16th, 2009, 10:06 PM
As long as you guys trust each other i say go for it. Keep your contact frequent, its key

Aves
August 19th, 2009, 05:18 PM
Once again, I say go for it, it sounds great.

SoFlaDude
August 19th, 2009, 05:22 PM
I think its wonderful that you two have that level of trust in each other to go along with that online relationship. They tend to be high maintanance those kinds of relationships, but if all is going well, I find no harm whatsoever in having an internet relationship. :)

too_cute_for_you
August 20th, 2009, 02:59 AM
Thanks for answering! Yeah everythings working out good. And come on, What other 13 year old guy would actually go through all the trouble of coming to another state just to meet a girl? :)

Harley Quinn
August 20th, 2009, 03:15 AM
true i think he really likes you so good luck to you both

Craig1995
January 1st, 2011, 07:39 PM
Sounds like I've got something special. If I were u I'd keep hold of it

Daniel_
January 1st, 2011, 08:06 PM
Long distance relationships usually have trouble holding together, however if you to are able to see each other occasionally, that would make it much easier, and it sounds like you two are very close.

Don't see why it's a bad idea, and I wish you luck.

Bluesman
January 1st, 2011, 08:33 PM
Is there anything wrong with it, no. Although take it from someone who's tried it, it is hard as hell. If you're willing to try it though, go for it!