yet another issue in my damn life.....

[dredgegolgari]

If u read my other post u know that im in a relationship with this girl, so as not to use names we're calling her "P"... ive been going out with her for over a year and its been great for the most part...

now something u should know about me is i tend to be sensitive and sometimes overreact... and P is well aware of this and throughout our relationship shes helped me

with that said...

Today i discovered that P had a whole bunch of lesbian porn and watches everynight...

now i am hurt because of the porn but thats not the main reason im so hurt...

im hurt because she LIED to me.... blatantly.... earlier in our relationship she said "i dont watch porn anymore" several times and even earlyer this week she said the same...

ok so i confronted her about this.... she actually gets pissed off at ME! she says im being stupid... Then i told her the main reason i was hurt was because of her lies... i said trust is the most important thing in a relationship... she got REALLY pissed ... IDK WHY!! usually she always makes me feel better but maybe that was just another lie..... this time she yelled at me to stop being a crybaby and be a man and grow the fuck up!! she actually yelled at me for apologizing!! She kept cussing me out till i finally hung up... i couldnt take anymore...

now as this was happening i was IMing my gay frined, M, and he feels awful.. hes sensitive too and he doesnt think im overreacting... hes been a really good friend but i think im starting to fall for him... idk but ive never quite felt like this....


Any advice?
ANY at all would be appreciated...

[spaz]

try sitting down with her and calmly talk it out. as for falling for ur gay friend, im not sure if i can help. sry

[sam i am]

First of all if your girl friend isn't a porn addict what's the big deal.. really thats something personal and shouldn't really be any of your business,unless she has a problem. Yea she lied ,that was wrong but don't annoy her about it and then if u keep on apologizing after that don't make u look good but then again i wasn't there and i had to be there to fully understand and help. Now the dude M u might be falling for him or maybe your just confuse. It could be because your girl friend was there for u now is like not and now u found someone that makes u feel much better than before even when u and your girl friend didn't fight u maybe be developing feelings for this guy just don't break up with her saying i don't like u screw u and date him .. it takes time to make a choice like that