ack girl trouble! plz help!

[wadeexpo]

okays so heres the deal... ive been going out w/ a girl for about a month and a half... and i most def think she is the one b/c we so obviously love e/o and we never fight etc
well she has kissed me on the cheek many times.. and i have kissed her cheek only like once...im shy... and i was wondering... should i kiss her on the lips soon or no?
please give some advice

[Scar]

i dont think you should kiss her on the lips yet. you should get use of kissing her on the cheek. then once you do try the lips.

[wadeexpo]

ok thx scar

[Luckylee218]

Hmm... well your lucky. ^.^ Any ways you should probally hold it out for a while. Talk to her first. That way you both know what each other thinks and feels about it. If she says she doesn't mind then you should go for it. But only if you feel 100% fine with it. Meaning that there is no little voice in your head saying, "no! No! Don't do it! I'm not ready! No! No!" I have to admit it is confusing when your heart says yes but your head says no. Some times I just wished they worked together, but they ussually don't. So deep way down deep and tell her how you feel.

[osharp]

i think you should go for it anly when the time is right you go 90% she gos 10% you dont go all the way

[wadeexpo]

ok guys thanks so much for your help but..
SHE kissed ME yesterday lol...
it was very nice

but yeah thanks again for bothering to post help

[fdsgfg55465]

lips!

[Aηdy]

lips!

:spam:


ok well after me and my gf were going out for about 3-4 weeks we kissed on the lips in school.. unfortunately that was only how far we went.. but its a good feeling of connection.

[R_master]

well how old are you? because most people are on to oral sex/sex at my age after that long. it sounds like your going alittle slow like if your not even french kissing her lips are no different from the cheeks anyways

[Aηdy]

physical contact like that isnt neccisary (sp?) and so what if hes going a little slow... i think thats a good thing

[R_master]

well im just saying my opinion, like i guess its ok if hes relativley young i dont care what he does with his relationships but why not go to next (small) step with her, he has been dating her for a month and a half..i kiss alot of my friends that are girls on the lips if i see them as a greeting its not really that sexual. but wadeexpo should just do what he feels right.

-edit-

well nvm anything i just said, dosnt matter since i just read the post where he said he did lol :P

[wadeexpo]

lol oral sex/sex! were only 13!

and plus even though methodists dont believe in having to.. i want to wait 'till marriage

[R_master]

lol oral sex/sex! were only 13!

yeah that what i thought, well good for u to belive in abstinance :)
(unlike me, but yeah diff religions~)