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wishuponastar
August 14th, 2009, 01:41 PM
So basically I really like this girl who is one of my best friends. I want to tell her how I feel but I kinda get the feeling she doesn't have feeling like tht for me and I dont want to tell her and then theres awkwardness between us. so wat should I do?
spaz
August 15th, 2009, 12:38 AM
if you are best friends, then if u tell her it shouldnt effect ur friendship. who knows, she could feel the same way:)
wishuponastar
August 15th, 2009, 08:10 AM
but I'm not the usual type of guy she normally goes for so I'm unsure bout telling her
ackmedsgirl666
August 15th, 2009, 10:28 AM
well depending on who she likes
since you guys are bestfriends you never know
maybe there is a secret connection between her and you that shes holding back.
if your not very comfortable teling her face to face maybe email her or write her a letter, that way you atleast don't feel insecure about having that on your chest. good luck and i hope this helped;)
wishuponastar
August 15th, 2009, 03:26 PM
thnx
Darkness
August 16th, 2009, 12:46 PM
Hey look thats not it at all!
I had a friend like that, one day she asks if I "fancy her" (Her words not mine) I say no and I never see her again. I had no idea she felt like that, she gave no sign. I'm not saying that will happen to you but the might be a Ross & Rachel thing cause that weirdly can happen.
Grey fox
August 16th, 2009, 03:35 PM
I went out with my best friend, and after the break up we are still really close.
It depends though. If you can be sure that there is something between you two that feels like you just clicked together or connected, then chances are she felt it too. Maybe bring it up gently to her that although you really value your friendship, you'd like there to be something more.
Just talk basically, that's really the best advice I can give...
Maxxy
August 17th, 2009, 07:23 AM
I was asked out by my best friend, and I said "yes". Shortly after we realised that we were more like brother-sister best friends rather than couple best friends. We're still very close friends now, so I guess just take the chance. Who knows, you could end up with the perfect relationship as you already know each other so you can move that phase quicker.
Just follow your heart
BlackenedSilver
August 17th, 2009, 08:42 AM
I had a crush on my Best guy friend, he found out one day and yes it made us not talk as much for a few weeks. But now we are closer than ever, We talk about relationships everything. So it's worth telling her, or it will eat at you until you do. Just make sure that if she doesn't feel the same way you don't let her slip through your fingers it's easy to let that happen through embarrasment.
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