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the_conquerer
August 14th, 2009, 01:27 PM
Last weekend I kissed one of my best mates (female) and we have always been quite close and talked about most stuff but now everything is suddenly reallly awkward between us and were not talking at all + she has a boyfriend who suspects somethings gone on between us and he started sending texts from her phone saying how he loves me pretending to be her so hes trying to get a reaction but i dont know what to do. :/
IAMWILL
August 14th, 2009, 01:53 PM
Well first, Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Relationships and Dating
itsandrew_
August 14th, 2009, 02:42 PM
Maybe you shouldn't have kissed her if you knew she had a bf. My ex gf was going behind my back with her ex and now current gf so i understand what her bf is doing. So if I where you I would appologize and then maybe it will stop.
dredgegolgari
August 14th, 2009, 10:56 PM
prolly best her bf doenst find out... but yeah u should prolly just apologize to her and keep it between the two of you...
kyle95
August 18th, 2009, 01:49 AM
that's very creepy and underhanded of him. he doesn't deserve to know. don't respond to the texts. just clear the air with her, the first chance you get.
sebbie
August 18th, 2009, 08:19 AM
GO AND TALK TO HER!!!
The longer you leave it the more awkward it will get, clear things up with her, explain why you acted, that you don't want anything to change between her as you are good friends.
As with her boyfriend I would advise you to stay out of that, he does have a right to know but that is a matter between him and her.
Aves
August 18th, 2009, 06:59 PM
I would talk to her about it, break the ice, and maybe tell her bf about it. MAYBE.
overcome.
August 21st, 2009, 01:26 PM
I'd say speak to her, otherwise it will be awkward until you do, or maybe when/if she does. Being good friends she will also be feeling the awkwardness and probably not like it as well, so the sooner the better.
KarkatLuv
September 23rd, 2011, 11:28 PM
it was one measily kiss, if shes your best mate then just get over it an spend time with her but only as a friend, at least until her relationship breaks up
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