omfg help

[helpmeplease123]

ok im 13 and ever since i was like 10 i remember i walked into my dads room and i was curious so i opened this drawr in the bed stand and he had like 20 porno videos...i was completely grossed out at the time and i thought it would be only temporary since he has my mom etc...but now 3 years later he still has some and now when im sittin on the couch , he will lock the door with the computer in it and start watching porn and sometimes he will walk asround the house naked i mean is this normal???? or is he just a complete pervert please help

[jismopper]

pervert! haha don't know. it's pretty normal for guys (even dads) to be into porn. at least he locks the door before jerking off.

[itsandrew_]

uhm the pornos are normal. The him walking around naked is a little weird.

[JackOfClubs]

Well, I wouldn't call it normal. Possessing porn is not weird, but he has a wife, and that just makes it wrong, and I don't think he should be walking around the house naked anyway.

[Sceneboy612]

Well, he is a guy too, so him having porn is compleatly normal as any other guy having it. and as for the walking around naked.......I dont really know

[spaz]

lmao the porno is ok:) but the walking around the house naked is a little wierd

[bowlheadhere]

I dont think he is a pervert. I mean all of us need to release our sexual tension no matter how old we are. It is like that one book called "everyone poops", it is like "every guy masterbates". That is a weird analogy, but it works... so yea. =D

[ctboii]

ok umm ewwwww. i never understood how its ok for men to have porn even with their wives there to please them. i find it just wrong and gross o all levels

[scuba steve]

well my mum and dad are happily married and i still catch him every now and again on the internet. It's just a human instinct really if you ask me

[MoveAlong]

Sometimes people associate porn with vulgarity and perversion. Some of it actually IS very very vulgar and perverted. However, others may see the mainstream porn to be something that is just entertainment...entertainment that gets you sexually aroused.

Some couples may use pornography to get them aroused, and experiment in their own practices.
People who are even married or hitched can watch porn, as everybody needs their "alone" time. Everyone masturbates in private, even on their own when they're in a relationship. Maybe this is one of the reasons your father has the pornography.

Everyone has their own opinion. I personally think it's normal.

[Donkey]

Hi...

Your dad watches porn too. Yep, it's true. Your dad has a penis, and he's not afraid to use it. There's nothing wrong with porn. It, in my mind anyway, is a legitimate form of entertainment that may not be to everyone's tastes. Don't be weirded out though. Your dad's a guy too.

If you feel uncomfortable b/c he walks around the house naked, just tell him how you feel and he should understand.

[Grey fox]

My dad walks around the house naked too, his reasoning is that its his house and we needn't look if we don't want to! Maybe it's different for me because I live in the middle of nowhere with no neighbours... Anyway, it just shows I guess that he is relaxed and happy about his body, and after all, being your dad he's probably seen you naked before! But if you find it disturbing, either tell him straight out, or buy him something like a bathrobe with a BIG HINT so he gets the message about covering up!

Most parents have porn, seriously. It can be used also as a way of deeply communicating with each other or a way of enacting or introducing personal fantasies, or just for one of the couple to get pleasure from if the other one isn't in the mood.

Basically, it's fine, don't worry. be happy :)

[DTeen]

My parents have porn and stuff like whips lol so you dont got the worst...

I just dont even pay attention to what they do up there anymore

[CestDan]

Well, he is human, so I think it's normal he has some porn videos. The only thing that I disagree with is that he is naked while you are there, I mean, He has to be respectful for you and your family.

[Swimmaboy]

Most dads have porn or watch it at least. It's totally normal just like we watch porn. Now him walking around the house naked is a little different. It could just mean that your dad is very comfortable with you seeing him naked or he doesn't know your there when he does it.

[Lord GaGa]

rofl
This truly made me lol, since you acted like it was a huge emergency and all. Yes, it's normal, and as long as he doesn't try to molest you, you should be fine.

[The Joker]

Well, I wouldn't call it normal. Possessing porn is not weird, but he has a wife, and that just makes it wrong, and I don't think he should be walking around the house naked anyway.

ok umm ewwwww. i never understood how its ok for men to have porn even with their wives there to please them. i find it just wrong and gross o all levels

Well, he has a penis. Sometimes he may want to see other ladies naked, other than his wife.

Would you rather have him act out his fantasies and cheat, or watch porn and harm no one?