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Amyxoxo
August 13th, 2009, 02:53 PM
Hey huys,
well im new here and i really need someones help!!
Well like usual i have turned to cutting again and i feel that it is getting worse!! I have really tried getting help from a councler but she would ask me such obvious questions that all i did was come home and do it again!
My arms are now full and im working on my belly i really dont want to do thins anymore!!
This is why i need your help, what do you guys do to not harm??
Well please message back or you can e-mail me @
Well, thank you :)
Amyxoxo
PoisonedRazorBlades
August 13th, 2009, 02:57 PM
Hey hun. Try to keep your mind off it.
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=48802 Try visiting that thread, it will give you a lot of ways to keep busy, try them, even if some sound strange to you, it may help.
Feel free to PM me and I'll try to help the past I can, oh and welcome to VT.
All the best x
Charleigh
August 13th, 2009, 03:00 PM
me too =[ i cut myslef all the time and im fed up of it =[ what i tried though is get some paper nd write donwn your felings and then cut paper, as it yu were cutting yourself, it helps=] hope i helped
Discomposure
August 13th, 2009, 03:00 PM
Welcome to vt, first of all you should know your not alone with your self harm plenty other people do it, like me. What you need to do is keep yourself busy there is a thread on the site that gives you things to do instead of cutting. Anytime you need to talk just pm me :) x
Amyxoxo
August 13th, 2009, 03:10 PM
Thank you guys i will try everything i hate this stupid thing.
I never realised that it was so addictive :(
Amyxoxo
derkderpderp
August 13th, 2009, 03:18 PM
Hey,im like you,i SH a lot,but i found a way to expel the feelings and the compulsion to SH by painting and drawing,it helps free my mind and its calming.
Try it,or you can try another method,instead of self harming,why not rage?lock yourself in your room with nothing you could use to SH with,then let all your feelings out-kick,scream,punch,cry,shout,swear, whatever.
Just let it all out!it should help relieve some tension and im sure you will feel better afterwards.
Im here if you wish to talk,just pm me.
Good luck!
= )
Amyxoxo
August 13th, 2009, 03:42 PM
Hey Guys,
Well i need to post this somewhere coz well i need to lol :)
this may not be to do with self harm but what do you all think??
I have made so many mistakes but as soon as one starts to fade it eitherre-appears or another one creeps up!
I really wonder what makes my life like that. Is It me? did i do all of this to myself?is it someone else? Are they making me do all of this?
How can people have such perfect lives and mine is like this!!
Why do people act differently to me?
What started this all off, did i wake up one morning and tell myself that i was going to ruin my life?
Why do i have to ruin everything i have good in my life? How do people wake up look outside and see sun everyday? when i wake up i see grey sky every day, a grey cloud covers me as i walk along the road, my head staring at the floor. I hope that no one will see me, if they do then they will give me a dirty look, look down thair nose at me then walk off, sniggering and talkin behind my back!!
I feel like my lide is like a rain drop, i get really high everyone thinks im nice, drifting through the air as a cloud. Then i fall, everyone hates me, i fall to the floor with a mighty thump, everyone noes bout it. I get swep along the floor everything hitting me on the way. Then everything seems to go away but i evaperate only to turn into a cloud and for it to all happen again.
PM me guys
Amyxoxo
BuryYourFlame
August 13th, 2009, 03:44 PM
Hi Amy,
If you ever want to talk, just send me a PM :)
Project Delta
August 14th, 2009, 11:17 AM
Send any of the mod's a PM or me if you want, gonna add you on msn. so add
[email protected] if your interested :)
fallen angel
August 14th, 2009, 12:16 PM
hey hun, It is so difficult isn't it?
Have you tried using an elastic band that when you have an urge you can ping it.
Instant pain without a scar
take care xxx
Amyxoxo
August 14th, 2009, 02:20 PM
Wow i never actually thought bout that thanks so much to everybody :)
You Guys are so great :P
Amyxoxo
Project Delta
August 14th, 2009, 02:23 PM
Add me on msn :)
MadManWithaBox
August 14th, 2009, 03:07 PM
distract yourself. go for a run, read a book, play a video game. pm me if you want
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