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my brother is going to move in wit us :shock: he is going to find out that i am gay. that could cause problems because he dosent like gay so there will be fights. he is 3 years older than me. i cant handle people calling me names. i dont know what to do i know i cant hide it cause i have a boyfriend and word will get to him. addvice someone please :(

[what the?]

hun, don't worry. i'm pretty sure he won't find out, and he is your brother?! i'm sure he loves you. don't get in a stress :) i'm sure things will sort themselves out, one way or another

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he isnt like a that. he is a um bad. worst then me and i never admited it to anyone that he is. but i understand what you are saying. i am scared :(

[xTheLordsServantx]

I think ur bro will accept u for ur personality, and not for ur sexual preference. I think ur brother might be insecure because people who hate gays are just scared of gay people because they think they will become gay. I think u shuld explain to ur bro ur feelings.

[mexicandude]

well just face it when it comes up i still havent tols my family and not planning to they can find out them selves.

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he didnt move in but he found out anyway. i'll tell u how. me and my boyfriend planned to go to the movies and my brother showed up to hang out and didnt tell me so i called my boyfriend and told him we couldnt go and he got all mad and started complaining. so we did go and so did my brother, i told my boyfriend not to do anything wit me. when we were in the theater my boyfriend started grabing my hand and holding it but it was down under are legs but i pulled away but he got it again and thats when he saw

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sorry had to post again. later he said "so your gay" and i said yeah and last thing he said about was not to act gay around him but we get along so its all good. i broke up wit my boyfriend for some reasons and not just for that. wow i havent posted for a while anyway hi everyone.

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aww thats great your bro knows! even if he says not to act "gay" around him he prob just needs to get used to the whole idea!

and hey there back its been a while since you have been around!:D

[Φρανκομβριτ]

see everything worked out! I'm glad. People usually don't mind eve if they're homophobic, just as long as you keep it away from them. It's too bad, but it's true. GOod luck mate!!

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i got another problem. one of my exboyfriend wants to go back out with me but i kinda dont want to go out wit him but i kinda do. he is in alot of stress and if i say no i dont want to put more stress on him. i dont kno what to do? i need advice

[Trademarked]

i got another problem. one of my exboyfriend wants to go back out with me but i kinda dont want to go out wit him but i kinda do. he is in alot of stress and if i say no i dont want to put more stress on him. i dont kno what to do? i need advice
well, if this applies, say he's a really nice guy and all, give him a hug and just say no. me having no boyfriend experience, i wouldnt know... but i hope it works out!
great to see you again btw