View Full Version : I'm really confused...
thepieman
August 12th, 2009, 04:55 PM
I describe myself as curious, but I think I could be bi?
I have always had a sexual attraction to girls, and have had one for guys too for a while. However, since a close friend of mine came out as bi, I'm not sure if I am beginning to feel emotionally attracted to guys too.
I can see having a proper relationship with a girl in future, and I can see myself with kids etc. But I've also began to see myself living with another guy. Does this make me bi, or am I still just curious?
itsandrew_
August 12th, 2009, 06:01 PM
It wouldn't make you bi just curious but only you can tell if you are bi or curious.
BeautifulSilence
August 12th, 2009, 06:01 PM
Okay... Ignoring the fact that I absolutely loathe the word "curios":
It isn't always clear straight away what your sexuality is, especially during puberty because your hormones basically want you to have sex with anything.
But if you can see yourself with either sex in the future, you could very well be bisexual.
I would say that you are probably bisexual as you've become emotionally attracted to males. If you were "curious" or "it's just hormones" then you'd be more likely to have physical attractions to men.
There's no rush to label yourself anything, you are still the same person, that won't change because you've identified your sexuality. In fact you might find that you don't like physical relationships with one gender, making you straight or gay rather than bisexual. But it's really unclear and it will be for some time.
You just have to go with the flow really. Don't try to force yourself one way or the other and don't necessarily stay away from relationships with one or the other. Do what feels right for you and remember that no matter what you are, you can always say no to someone if you feel uncomfortable.
thepieman
August 13th, 2009, 07:50 AM
Thanks for the advice. I'm still unsure so I'll just go with the flow.
Fourth Dimension
August 15th, 2009, 10:49 PM
well my situation was similar but i figured myself out i can proudly say im bi
mr.sexy_bomb
August 18th, 2009, 05:06 AM
well i think you just need time and we all go trought that in one period of our time, except my grandma who is 49 and claims she always knew she was straight and gay people will burn in he, which i so disagree with her, because we gay people are the bomb we are the best since popcorn was invented any who good luck :)
thepieman
August 18th, 2009, 11:38 AM
Thanks for all your replies.
I've thought things through, and I think I am bi.
Thanks again, wish me luck. :)
YourFriend
August 21st, 2009, 12:24 PM
You might be bi or you might be curious as well, only you can know.
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