Couldn't Cum

[david2009]

the other day i walked in on my girlfried masturbating she saw me come in and didn't stop and asked me to join in so i did. we were doing it for about 10 miniutes we were both realy horny. then she started sucking my cock which was amazing she was sucking me of for 30 minutes but i could't cum, is this normal and has this happed to anyone else

[Patchy]

Possibly because the stimulation wasn't enough to make you ejaculate.

This is normal, as far as I know it is hard to cum over a Blow job.

[Donkey]

Heya David!

Because you can't control what your girlfriend is doing when she gives you a blowjob, you can't decide what's best and you can't decide when you can't stop and are about to ejaculate. For these reasons, by receiving your first few blow jobs it's unlikely you'll ejaculate.

As you become more experienced however, you may be able to. But you have to make sure you're focusing on the pleasure and not on the fact that you're receiving a blowjob or anything else because that will take your mind off the sexual pleasure which may not make ejaculating so easy.

[Zeavix]

yeah i would think the same thing as patchy because the friction isnt the same.

[Donkey]

yeah i would think the same thing as patchy because the friction isnt the same.
Hmm...

It could be to do with pace, mental state during, how much your penis is squeezed, many many other different things that it could be. But it's like masturbating, you probably won't cum the first few times but one time you do :)

[Zeavix]

Hmm...

It could be to do with pace, mental state during, how much your penis is squeezed, many many other different things that it could be. But it's like masturbating, you probably won't cum the first few times but one time you do :)

also true.:)

[MoveAlong]

Many times, a blowjob alone is not enough to make someone ejaculate. It can be combined with her masturbating you, or you masturbating, in order to finish off. The oral sex is just part of it.

The point is, it wasn't enough stimulation to get you off.

[david_1990]

maybe its liek the 1st time getting a bj and i might need more stimulation in order to cum. try just finishing it off with a handjob or sumthing next time .. but hte more u do it the more control u can have or like u can tell her to go faster or slowler or sumthig

[jgibbsd]

It is okay it happens to alot of people.

[The Joker]

Proffesor Jon has it.

Also, if it was your very first time doing it, you may have been too nervous to ejaculate! You're lucky, some guys ejaculate right away their first time. Once you've had sex a few times it won't be like this.

Also, always warn your partner when you are going to cum. Some people would rather not have a mouthful of that stuff!