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tiger17
August 11th, 2009, 10:03 PM
has any guy been so nervous before sex that u cant get hard?is it normal?

MoveAlong
August 11th, 2009, 10:24 PM
No I have not been nervous as I have not done anything. It is normal for you to be nervous...sex is a very big thing. You don't just have sex with everything you see, so it's personal, especially the first time. So you may be a bit nervous. Maybe you should try to relax

iceyfresh
August 11th, 2009, 10:44 PM
No but i get massive butterflies ever time a make a move on a girl when im nervous

Kevwee
August 11th, 2009, 11:13 PM
Well from what my friends have told me they say that sometimes they get nervous before they have sex because they might not know what to do or they are wondering what the other person may think of them. Probably the same thing when you ask a girl out you get nervous.

Donkey
August 12th, 2009, 05:30 AM
Hey tiger.

I haven't because I haven't had sex but I think even if you were nervous and worried about it, you'd still be able to maintain an erection if you were turned on. If you are nervous, perhaps you should discuss this with whom you are going to have sex with and make sure that you're both ready for it and understand what you're doing in full detail.

As Zach stated above, sex is a big move so it's normal to be nervous when you're first going into it. Once you're more experienced, that will go away because you'll know what you're doing when you go into having sex.

Stevo 69
August 12th, 2009, 08:25 AM
Your first time may be nervous as it's a big thing to do when you havent done before, don't worry though, don't think about being nervous as you will be thinking about it and not on the act you are doing. BE SURE YOU ARE READY, some find they are nervous because they do not know what to do or are worried the might do it wrong, so be confident.

YourFriend
August 12th, 2009, 08:26 AM
Nope, not me.

meetthecreeper
August 12th, 2009, 11:37 AM
Ur thinkin about it to much sex is natural and comes naturaly let it flow and only focus on your partner and yourself durin and before the act

~Edited by Blackenedsilver, Rude~

Zeavix
August 12th, 2009, 01:44 PM
im still a virgin so i wouldnt know:)

shad
August 12th, 2009, 01:48 PM
It is normal.