This gal

[Jeff.R]

I'm madly in love with this gal. She's got the most beautiful body and face..Problem. She has a boyfreind. And it's really weird she'll say shit that makes me think she likes me and stuff, and she told me to kiss her{On the cheek}And I've hugged her plenty of times. Almost like there's a problem in her relationship with her boyfreind and she needs someone to fall back on. But...I'm going wild here. I feel I neeeeeed to make a move. But if I do, I think it will tottally ruin our freindship. And if I don't make a move. I never will...Help!

[DouggyO.o]

u need to do what ur heart feels best, if that makes since

[Jeff.R]

Well, what my hart thinks best will definatly fuck me over..If what I think is right anyways it will.

[Elscire]

looks like you'll be next in line when she finally breaks ups with her old boyfriend. all i can say is be nice and giving.
(oh jeff, its "heart and definitely")

[krzwis]

okay...hugs are a sign of love...true.....but people ask for big hugs from me even if my gf is standing right there. Hugs are a sign of friendship love, and sorta a sign of "i care about you" or "thanks for being there" sorta. Friends hug....kiss on the cheek....i don't know about.....aparently it happens to some (like a girl once gave my brother a kiss on the cheek)....i asume it sometimes means the same thing)....i gave two guys a kiss on the cheek while my gf was standing right next to me.....mind you, it was under mistle toe and i was kinda hyper and crazy.

You might like her...but what happened does NOT mean she likes you exacly the same way...she might like you, but not nessisarly like a crush or anything

[mike1]

make ur move

[RC]

Me and the girl I have a crush on have hugged plenty a time, basically as a greeting when we haven't seen each other in a while, or when we feel that the other has done something great. And I have to tell you that with the first girl I asked out, it ruined our friendship for months, but that was most certainly 'cause I didnt do it properly. But if you really like her, make your move!

[Luckylee218]

Ok, time for advice from a girl ok. I agree what they said about the hugging, I give ugs to my guy friends all the time. But that doesn't mean any thing. It just means that they are really good friends or I just wasn't feeling my ussual happy self. Some times I will give my gal friends a hug too. Especially to the ones from the school play that I have gotten to know very well. The hug may just mean that you are a good friend to her or that you looked sad and she wanted to cheer you up either way it means your a good friend. It's either that or your the sensitive guy that most girls would love to date. But now the kiss on the cheek... that I don't do myself but yet again I'm a bit on the shy side. Really she was probally thanking you for something by the kiss. Nothing more than that. And asking her out thing wait until her and the guy break up then talk to her to make sure she is happy. Then what you do is wait a week or so to let her heal then ask her if she will go out with you. If she says yes, just remember to never forget to communicate and don't over do things. Also you should listen to what she has to say. But if she says no, smile and say "that's fine" and then start up a new conversation.

[Jeff.R]

Just the other day, she kissed me on the cheeck witch she said she'd never do because she had a boyfreind. She was pinching my ass and slapping it a little, we hugged a lot. And she said she loved me and asked me for advice how to "Get out of an annoying relationship" And she said she needs to get out of that relationship later on that day aswell.

[kolte]

don't make a move when shes in a relationship allready. If I was the guy, and I saw my girl hugging and pinching your ass, I would beat the fuck out of you. Its called honor, and respect, and in my neck of the woods, its not only desrespectful and rude, its grounds for an ass kicking and a bullet in the fucking head. So just watch out..

[fdsgfg55465]

ask her out

[Jeff.R]

She's not in a relationship...I want to tell her how I feel before I ask her out. And I don't know when to tell her that. And <NotTheUsualOne>..No not looks everything...Personality etc..I love everything about her.

[xTheLordsServantx]

I think ur jumping the gun by saying "i love her" Love is a strong word. If I were u i wuldnt be throwing it around. Maybe u really really like her, but its prob not love. Whether love or strong attraction, i say u make a move when shes done and over with her current relationship. Trust me, rushing things just makes it worse. But to me, it seems as if she really likes u and u guys wuld hit it off...

[Luckylee218]

Or at least could. But if it does work out make sure that you don't start ignoring her, or forget to give her a christmas present, or valintine's pressent or birthday present. Not only that but don't forget to talk with her as well to keep the friendship level up. A GF or BF is supposed to be like your best best friend. If you can't act like friends from time to time then the feelings die. Besides you don't want her to break up with you thinking that your a jerk!

[Jeff.R]

That's true, and as of now she's threw with her old!!! bBoyfreind, and I told her how I feel, she gave me the old "Awww that's so sweet" Hugged me and as she was doing that she said hse loved me.