Gay?

[crisper99]

I know you guys get this qeustion alot but I need it answered for me!

- I like gay porn and regular porn
- I don't jackoff
- I find men very attractive sometimes and i find women attractive only sometimes
- I fantasize about women, not men
- I picture attractive men naked alot
- naked men turn me on almost instantly, for women it takes me a while

Am I gay or is it just puberty?

[Stealth]

I dont think u are gay. Just curious.

[Atonement]

A. Sexuality is a preference to one sex. Homosexuals tend to view the same sex as sexually and emotionally appealling.

B. Jacking off and porn usually have nothing to do with it.

C. We cannot tell you if you are gay. That is your own journey to figure out.

[Mzor203]

Moving to Teen Sexuality.

[ACQD139F83J]

I think you're likely bi, but it could just be puberty...

[Cromm]

How old are you, anyway?

I don't think you should be worried about this. Gay, stright, homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual, polyamerous, asexual.... it's all irrelavent in your teens. Don't be affraid to be who you are, whoever that may be. Don't worry about attractions, as long as your not hurting yourself, just go with the flow and let life take you wherever it does.

If, by the time you're an adult, you find you're gay, you're gay. If not, whatever. It's not important for you to have a label. It is important for you to be honest with yourself. It'll come naturally. No need to figure it out right now.


Peace. :)

~CC

[YourFriend]

You aren't gay, just curious.

[thepieman]

You're just curious. There's no rush to label yourself. You'll know when you have made the right decision, but now just be honest with yourself and don't worry!

[NVerson]

same with me! lol But i don't consider myself gay or bi, but curious:yes:

[Guillermo]

Yeah. I think your definately just curious.

[MichaelAdams1993]

Based on your original facts it looks like you are physically attracted to men and emotionally and physically attracted to women. Even though it takes you longer to get aroused by women that is probably because being a teen has your hormones raging so the sight of someone like you (men) gets you excited. But you fantasize about women which is more emotional and are aroused by them period which is physical and to be gay you must be physically AND emotionally attracted to guys.

Bottom Line: Your straight, and a normal teen.

Hope I helped, if its too confusing, PM me.

P.S. Jacking of has noting to do with it.

[itsandrew_]

I'm sure its puberty or you are just curious.

[The Joker]

Am I gay or is it just puberty?[/QUOTE]

I'm going to dissect all your points.

- I like gay porn and regular porn

Your hormones can cause you watch anything with porn. By the way, just because it's straight porn doesn't make it regular.

- I don't jackoff

Not masturbating has nothing to do with you're sexuality.

- I find men very attractive sometimes and i find women attractive only sometimes

If you find women attractive, I DOUBT that you are gay. Maybe bi.

- I fantasize about women, not men
- I picture attractive men naked alot
- naked men turn me on almost instantly, for women it takes me a while

The first point, and the second and this don't make sense. If you picture naked men that's a fantasy. Gay people don't fantasize about women, lesbian/bisexual/straight people do.

In conclusion, you aren't gay. It might be puberty. But, you may be bisexual. Time will tell, don't try and label yourself. Just be a teenager, have fun! :yes:

[YanceyJ]

seems gay man