Is it worth it?

[TheTruth]

Okay so ehh i really like this girl who happens to be my best friend. We used to go out with each other like 2 years ago but then it ended and i was really immature back then to know how to treat her right. I'm unsure whether she likes me or not because this guy who we both know talked to us alone when the other wasn't there asking us if we liked each other. i dont know what she said but i didn't admit to anything. Then the next day she asked me what he had been saying to me and i told her bits because i really didnt want to tell her everything. So then we got to the point where we both knew that he asked if we fancied each other. I told her that if we did go out it would ruin our friednship and then she admitted that she told him that.

As much as i would love to have much more of a relationship with her i know that eventually it would end and we wouldn't speak to each other for a long time and then we'd realise that we've lost our great friendship that we used to have. The first time we broke up it was about a month or 2 until we started talking to each other again and we had only kissed ("got off" with each other) so it wasn't that bad when it came to becoming friends again. But if we were to for example further and have sex, seen as she has done before, then i know it would be really hard speaking to each other after we broke up. I realllllllllly want to go out with her but i reallllllly don't and im just stuck in the dilema with no way out. What can i do, i dont really wanna confront her about it because i never make the first move in anything so just what do i do? I love her so much in so many ways :(

[Aves]

Well just because last time you 2 didn't talk for a while, doesn't mean it will be the same. I would say if you truly love her, and nothing in this wretched, god damn world can change that, then go for it.

*sorry for harsh language*

[Allspice_la_fever]

It's hard but I think you should go for it. Yes, breaking up could be hard, but if you don't you might regret it for a long time afterwards. Good luck.

[TheTruth]

Ok thanks but ... i dunno. im just too scared cuz of seen what she talks about in her texts and ii think she's joking about with a lot of these guys but i just wanna find out if its me she fancies without raising any alarms. Also if i were to ask her out and she said yes then i wouldn't know whether we go from where we broke up if we start all over again.

I feel like she could do better than me... and that i'd be jealous of the guy who gets her.

[mrmcdonaldduck]

if she truly is your best friend, then you should risk it.

[Vaulter]

Risk it dude, risk it! I was in love with my best friend, and she moved to Wisconsin. After she left her friend said, "It stinks you didnt talk to her more." I said what, were like best friends

She said, i know, but she really really liked you.

I almost shot myself that night, dont regret anything in life.