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Trademarked
March 17th, 2006, 11:46 PM
and i really like him. and im gay, and it freaks the hell out of me and i get really scared of what people will think. so it made me really nervous being around him after i told him i was gay. i had the biggest fantasy of me telling him i was gay, and then him telling me he was gay too and that he always liked me. but thats not what happened, i thought he would take it as a big deal and treat me better, but he didnt. he treated me just like a normal friend, which bugged the hell out of me.
so for the next couple weeks, i was constantly asking him who he liked, hoping he would ask me who i liked, BUT HE NEVER DID. so i was beginning to get really ticked off and ready to just call him and tell him. so i was talking to him on the phone, and he asked me who i liked. and i kinda freaked out and said, "you first" so he told me he liked some girl, and i figured, it couldnt get any worse, so i told him i liked him. and he still treats me like normal. and im just so depressed right now.

so my question, is there any way i can:
A) get him to like me?
or
B) find a way to just get over him?

BillyWitchDoctor.com
March 17th, 2006, 11:57 PM
welll.....it depends. do you REALLY like him as in youd risk your friendship over having him like you? cus im sure if you kept pressing the fact that you like him and have him try to like you, that he'd be annoyed. if he likes a girl then that most likely means he's straight and you cant go around changing people to that extent. but if you feel you really like him and losing your friendship together would be worth risking then its really ur choice. like you'll hear lots of places, these questions can only be answered by you. we can help you steer in the direction that best fits you based on what u say but only you can go in that direction and get what u want.

Trademarked
March 18th, 2006, 12:02 AM
well, he's bi, and sexuality really isnt a big deal in his family because his mom is a lesbian. and he's told me he was bi, and i told him i was gay. so we have a pretty good friendship right now. but i really like him alot, but i guess i'd rather like him from afar, then not have him at all.
and he knows i like him, sooo....