advice?

[greatoldone]

i have a real problem. i have a girlfriend, and i really love her. emotionally, i'm extremely attracted to her. But, i've noticed i'm more physically attracted to boys. i even find myself looking at boys in school and getting erections thinking about them. should i try to get a boyfriend and see if i like that more, or try to get more attracted to my girlfriend?

[Trademarked]

well i had the same problem, but when me and my GF broke up, i realized that the only reason i went out with her was to say i wasnt gay. but then i realized that being gay is alright, and then i just came to terms with my self , and it's all cool

i still do sometimes feel mentally attracted to girls, but i know that they wont work out.

my advice: just wait it out, and wait until you're getting close to done with puberty, and then maybe do a little mental check, and then (hopefully) you'll know,
and who knows? you might be bi

[AC.wAkeBoArDin.06]

Hormones can do that to you.... or u might be gay. Which theres nothing wrong with.

[greatoldone]

well, what if i still like girls after i experimented with one of my friends?

[R_master]

well your just curious im pretty sure you cant be "Wrong" with the ways you think, so maybe your bi, whatever you u feel or think in your mind is who you are, strangers on the internet dont have all the answers

[greatoldone]

yeah, i dont rely on strngers, just wanted an opinion

[mike1]

you may be bi

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

yea hormones can do this to you but i think its a lil stronger for u. you may be bi or gay or just in a wave of hormones like the rest of us and are very confused. anyway my advice would be to follow what you think is right, if u want to experiment with a friend and see what its like go for it. maybe then you'll see if you like it better or not and be on a much better track to what you want in life.

[Elscire]

Hormones can do that to you.... or u might be gay. Which theres nothing wrong with.
yup it happens, hormones can do a lot of weird things to you.

[what the?]

In my honest opinion, I think you should tell your girlfriend how you're feeling, and discuss whether you should take a break. But, the again, that depends on how understanding your girlfriend is. If you go on a break, it's upto you whether you experiment with one of your friends, but ultimatly i don't think that would tell you whether you're necessarly gay or not. I think you need time to answer that question. I hope that helps lol

[-Joe-]

Theres nothing wrong with being gay. People think that being gay is wrong, because theres more people that are straight than gay. So experiment and see what you like best :wink:

[Elscire]

one thing about gay people. i like gay people not because i'm attracted by hormones and i like like them but they can be trusted a hell lot better than any people here in florida and plus they don't greet you with a punch in the shoulder. but i' am straight.

[Tamed Meat]

There is one thing wrong with being gay, you gonna go strait to hell. So, greatoldone, you may be gay or bi, but what ever you do, don't go aorund hugging boys like in the preveiws of Brokeback Mountain.

[Jeff.R]

Dude, there's no such thing as "Hell"...Or God or Heven.

[Trademarked]

and "tamed meat" please keep your opinions to yourself. he was just asking for advice and there's no need to say he's going to hell. (partly because he wont seeing as there is no hell) but we're supposed to be open here, and not put down other people, so just respect everybody here okay?

[redcar]

There is one thing wrong with being gay

correction.....there is nothing wrong with being gay.

[skier44]

how the hell would u know if theres god heaven or hell

[Trademarked]

we dont know, but neither do you.
but for now, there's no reason to put down people because of something they didnt choose (nobody chose to feel attracted to the same sex) so let's just leave it for now

[Bobby]

This is out of hand, Cant I request a lock or something?????

[Trademarked]

yeah im up for a lock

all you need to do is
LOCK PLEASE and thankyou... :)

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

yea, tamed meat i dont think this is the right place for you if you feel your gonna be saying things like that. lock would be good now

[greatoldone]

wow, thanks for the advice. its cool that i can ask you people stuff like that and not be criticised. :)

[fdsgfg55465]

Hormones

[Pyromaniac]

I really don't see anything wrong with being gay. You night lose some friends.But if they can't accept you gay, then really, they were never your friend. And whatever you do -if all girls are distantly alike- do NOT tell your girlfriend you are gay!! She will think you don't have the balls to break up with her, and don't want to hurt her feelings and get all pissed at you for trying to get outa relationship with her becasue you aren't interested. Blah blah blah ;) But there ain't not utin wrong with gay people