several problems

[dieharddingos]

well heres my probleme. basicly i hang ot with about five girls(i'm a straight guy btw) and so far two of them have wanted to go out with me and i'm really shy when it comes to dating (otherwise i'm a really outgoing guy) so i told them no. but here's the problem i really like one of the five girls and she's going out with this guy and i have no idea what to do because we're really good freinds and i don't know if i'd feel comfortable on a date. to complicated.[/u]

[eternal_kismet00]

It's hard to say...If she has a boyfriend and seems happy with him, maybe you should move on as extreme as that may sound. If you really can't, try coming clean with her and letting her know how you feel...Unless you want to get hurt in the long run...