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ciberkiller21
August 5th, 2009, 04:50 PM
Ok so me nd this girl we both know we like each other but shes scared of goin out with me cos she dosnt want to loose me as a friend if we broke up but i told her that i wud still be her friend so my point being is there anythin else i cn do cos she wants to but just scared..

thnxs

Blazin
August 5th, 2009, 06:04 PM
Dude sounds like the same story as me. I just kept talking to her like I like her, acted more like a boy friend you know? Eventually she caved in.

Aves
August 6th, 2009, 06:54 PM
Tell her if you decide to break up, just tell her you just think it's better you just stay friends.

BeautifulSilence
August 7th, 2009, 05:32 PM
Try to see this from her point of view.

Relationships ALWAYS change people, for better or worse.
You cannot guarantee that you'll stay friends.
Being in a realationship puts certain pressures on couples - kissing, sex, etc.
If you find yourself in a situation that forces you together (you can't help kissing her for example) then it'll happen naturally and it won't feel forced, making it more special.
You can't make her go out with you officially, so just support her decision and be a good friend.