Finding out!

[Sweetguyx]

i am going to tell you all a story, it end with a problem i hope u can help me sort out lol. so please stick to the end.

I am 14 year old, i am sporty and resonablely good looking. i hang out with people like me, they all had tons of girl friends but i had never been in to girls really so i left them 2 it. I went on hoilday for about 2 months (lucky me huh) and got really involved in working out lol. I came back 2 weeks ago, thing were nomal, i got a bit more female attention but i wasn't Interested. one the 3rd day i was back, we had P.E. We did alot of working out and wen we got back inside we got changed, i felt stange all though the working out i couldn't help staring at my mates. As they got changed taking of there shirts, i saw there perfectly toned torso dripping with sweat. i got the most intense feeling ever, i just stared. luckily no2 noticed, so i relise now i am gay. i want to sleep and be with men end of.

But my problem is i want a bf, now there is this one guy. In my eyes the fittest person ever, he hangs round with me and has a buff body. like me he has never been Interested in girl, no matter how many ask him. he doesn't get involved in convos about girls. so i think he might be gay.

so here are my questions:
1. should i tell him how i feel about him, if so how do i go about doing so?

2. i need sum1 to talk bout turing gay lol so plz if u similer age and gay obivously please add me [email protected] and we can talk

cheers for listening.

[Aηdy]

1. i would just see for now just to see if you can tell weather he is gay or not... it really is hard to tell though unless you ask him


2. im not gay but i have added you and we can have a nice litte chat at some point :D

[Trademarked]

im 13, and i kind of have the same problem.
except, that i dont have gym, we have dance, and we dont change and do the shower thing. but the guy i like, has lesbian mothers, so he's a little bit more open about it, and i just became better friends with him, then kept asking him if he was gay.

so dont just flat out ask him, just become better friends (if possible) so it wont be awkward when you ask him, or you tell him

[Sweetguyx]

thought i would do a follow up, dunno y but i thought i would.

well we were down town and all my friends had there gf with dem, except me and the guy i like. so they had found a couple of girls dat were in to me and him. but we weren't intrested so we went back to his lol. we had a laughing make fun of are mates and how they obbsess over girls. and he suggested we go down to his garage and work out. after about 30 minutes we got really sweaty and took are shirts off lol (nearly floored me) den sadly i had to go home but not a bad day ova all!