Ex-girlfriend [Help me. Please.]

[Skittlez1313]

This girl bothers the fuck out of me. She's always overly jealous of every male I talk to. If I say I like someone, she wants to rip them to shreds. She's convinced that every male I see is immediately my love interest. And, I don't know why, but she's trying to pair me with my best friend, saying things like "You love him!!! Admit it!" and it annoys the hell out of me. I wish she'd just shut her creepy, obnoxious little face already. She always asks me to kiss/hug her, and when I don't, she goes and cuts herself or drinks.

She's always calling/IMing/texting me, and I just want this bitch off of my back.


Help.

For the love of God, HELP.

[peaceloverugby]

Oh, crazy ex-girlfriends, something I'm an expert on!

If you really want her out of your life, stop hanging out with her. Don't lead her on, or even talk about relationships with her. This sounds really mean, but you have to consider your mental health to be more important than hers.

This sounds mean too, but it's true: if you think you can work out just a friendship with her, you can't. She obviously has a much stronger attachment to you than you to her, and a friendship will never work in that condition.

[Skittlez1313]

Oh, crazy ex-girlfriends, something I'm an expert on!

If you really want her out of your life, stop hanging out with her. Don't lead her on, or even talk about relationships with her. This sounds really mean, but you have to consider your mental health to be more important than hers.

This sounds mean too, but it's true: if you think you can work out just a friendship with her, you can't. She obviously has a much stronger attachment to you than you to her, and a friendship will never work in that condition.

:] Thanks.

I'm talking to her right now, actually, and I don't know how to just drop it :/

If I tell her to leave me alone/stop being so jealous and freakish over me, she INSISTS that I'm not the problem, and that her life suuuuucks, etc. etc. etc.

UGH.

[kyle95]

this control freak will use any excuse - truth is not part of her make up, manipulation is. she upsetting you, so listen to yourself. ditch her before she sinks her claws into any deeper. she's like a bad dream outside your window, shut the bloody curtain

[Skittlez1313]

Thank you guys. This is no longer a problem.

I confronted her, and for now, all is well.