am i gay?

[thecooldude]

Im not sure if im gay i think i am cuz i love looking at guys and gay porn i nevr am interested in girls, i had oral sex with my friends alot and masturbate with them i have a huge crush on this gay kid in my school and i wanna date him btw 2 know im not attracted 2 girls only guys rly

[beedubs]

Well we really can't tell you what you are. I like gay porn also and has had oral sex with a guy and masterbated with a guy but I do like girls. But I'm just bi/bi-curious (somewhere in the middle). But anyway, we can't really tell you if your gay.

[sebas]

i think that if your not interested in girls and you like looking at gay porn and guys, then your either gay or bi

[peaceloverugby]

I can't tell you who you are but I can tell you this:

If you are gay, you will have zero attraction to women: physically or emotionally. You are exclusively attracted to men.

If you are straight, you will have zero attraction to men, physical or emotional. You are exclusively attracted to women.

If you are bi, you are physically and emotionally attracted to both sexes.

That being said, I read somewhere that psychologists say they don't believe anyone who is definite about their orientation until they are 25 years old.

[YourFriend]

If you have emotional and sexual attraction to guys only then you are gay.

[Donkey]

Okay let's get this straight because sometimes people find this hard to understand.

Here are what the different sexualities are:

Gay ~ Physically and emotionally attracted to same sex ONLY.
Bi sexual ~ Physically attracted to both sexes.
Straight ~ Physically and emotionally attracted to the opposite sex ONLY.

I don't think you should decide your sexuality until the end of puberty (early 20s) because you still have raging hormones and they make it so you have stronger sexual feelings than you would after puberty.

But right now, I'd say you'll probably end up gay, and that's fine. Sexuality doesn't matter and you should just be happy with who you are always :)

[djunlogical]

don't forget, your hormones could be all over the place (depending on your age) So it would be near impossible to determin wether you are bi/gay or straight. If you wanna date that guy then go ahead, don't care about what anyone else thinks, as long as you are happy, you do it. *that is not always a good lesson to live by, but in this case it is*

[IAMWILL]

I agree with Jon, but am also here to move this to Teen Sexuality! POOF!

[nick]

From what you've said it does sound quite possible that you might be gay, but like some of the others have said dont be in too much of a hurry to put yourself into a category, just go with the flow and wait for things to become fully clear.

It doesnt sound as if you're too upset at the idea anyway, which is great. Just be yourself.

[cole g]

I agree with djunlogical and nick dont hurry to label your self

[Aves]

You could be "EXTREMELY CURIOUS", but there's nothing wrong w/ being gay.

[ZzKingz]

well, if you strongly feel more interested in boys than girls, then you very well could be.

there still is a good chance that you're not.

[MichaelAdams1993]

If you have emotional and sexual attraction to guys only then you are gay.

Exactly!!!

It sounds like you have both though because you say your liked being with a guy and you want to date a guy. This would be the emotional and sexual/physical attraction to them.

[gone]

Well Im guessing if you don't have any attraction for girls what so ever and only find males attractive then I think you may be gay..

but why make a choice now..
your young
you don't need to be labeled just do what ever you like best :D

good luck :)

[danielg]

no one can tell u what u are but if u dont like girls and you realy like this dude go for it

[mosaic.]

Yes. You're absolutely gay. Finally, a definite, direct answer.

[thedudeman]

sounds like to me your deffinately gay, you said you have no attraction to women, so yea, your deff gay
accept it and im sure life will be easier for you

[thepieman]

There's no rush to label yourself, but it sounds like you could be gay. As you say you want to date a guy, you seem to be emotionally attracted to guys. If you were curious you'd possibly be attracted to girls, at least on a physical level, which you aren't.

As I've said, you could be gay, but don't rush or worry, and be comfortable about who you are.

[punkjake]

you sound gay my friend if you have a crush on a guy

[dman18]

dude yea your gay, Im sorry

[Antares]

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