Need major help!!

[sam i am]

So Ok I know this guy he's like my best friend he's straight but curious(Im bi btw) and he has a girl friend .... he knows i like him a lot like were so close he tells me things he never told any one... and lately i can't take it like he be asking me what should he get for his girl.. one time he compared me to her and one time i said the exact same thing she said to him and said we think alike.. like wtf? he knows i really like him(because i told him many times) but on my side it seems like he don't think before he speaks.. like what should i do? he trust me he even said he can talk about anything to me,like how Im different from his other guy friends and Im for real..i don't wanna mess up that trust and i don't want him to hate me but at the same time Im tired of him doing that to me like i have no feelings ....i feel like he's messing with my emotions. he even said he started to like me at one point ..Im stuck in this stupid love triangle... like Im his second girl like i know more shit about him than his girl friend .. he knows me very well too he knows when i get sad or mad,Im sick of it i wanna be with him but he never sees him self with a guy..but he's willing enough to experience with me sexually...i just need help what should i do should i tell him how i feel and how this is affecting me or should i let it go because he has told me he don't feel that way about me? I really can't help it i love him and i feel like he's messing with my emotions

[Natoja12]

just let him no how u feel and ask him to think before he speaks.

[sam i am]

but the thing is he gets defensive a lot like im afraid he will take it the wrong way and hate me like thats y were like best friends people always talk about us behind are backs me and him are best friends because we stick together and care for each other and i don't wanna betrayed him

[sebbie]

When you first told him how you felt, what was his reaction?

Also the fact that he is already in a relationship is another factor you need to consider, if he is faithful to his girlfriend nothing can happen with you without it affecting her.

From your post it sounds like he is a good friend of yours so he tells you about his relationship, whether it is something that has happened, or asking for advice. I reckon he is not aware of how you are feeling towards him.

[sam i am]

His reaction was like ok but sam u know it can't work out ..... and he's aware of how Im feeling towards him...i told him many times im in love with him and how i never felt this way about anyone before....ik he has a gf but him saying and considering experiencing with me he's ok with and i told him what about his girl and he says thats not cheating really because he sees me as a best friend,not some other dude but he knows i love him ..and i feel like his messing with my emotions and he don't realize it.. and if i tell him how i feel im afraid he would think i betrayed him and his trust...he be saying how with out me he couldn't take it anymore and i don't want him to think i betrayed him...and im afraid if i tell him i have to choose my words carefully because he's so defensive