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[cheetin]

Gunna make this quick cause im in a hurry
-GF's parents are abusive (verbaly and physicly)
-GF is russian orphan
-GF is "emo"/gets really deppresed cause of parents
-Her parents figured out we had sex.
-Gf moved here from the US (im in canada) 7 months ago
-I had an argument with her dad over msn about us having sex and i totaly destroyed all of his aguments to the point where he was making fun of my spelling
- Gf spends alot of time in the US with parents.
I care so much for her and I have no clue what to do. Cause they can just go to the US and never come back :(

-and she is missing one leg from the knee down

[sebbie]

A key factor is... how old is this girl?

[cheetin]

15/ im 15 to

[sebbie]

Gunna make this quick cause im in a hurry
1-GF's parents are abusive (verbaly and physicly)
2-GF is russian orphan
3-GF is "emo"/gets really deppresed cause of parents
4-Her parents figured out we had sex.
5-Gf moved here from the US (im in canada) 7 months ago
6-I had an argument with her dad over msn about us having sex and i totaly destroyed all of his aguments to the point where he was making fun of my spelling
7- Gf spends alot of time in the US with parents.
8I care so much for her and I have no clue what to do. Cause they can just go to the US and never come back :(

9-and she is missing one leg from the knee down

1. If you think there is abuse, then report it to a relevant authority, also are you sure it is not just her parents being strict and she goes off on one saying abuse?
2. Her background is irrelevant.
3. Depression is a serious medical condition, has she been properly diagnosed with it or is she just a raging hormonal teen who thinks she is depressed? Chances are if she has been diagnosed her parents will know about it and should know how to act.
4. She is still under the legal guardianship of her parents so they have a right to know what she is doing.
5. Her background is irrelevant.
6. Ok you are both 15, that is under the legal age of consent for having sex, there is a reason for her parents to be mad, it is called being protective.
7. What time she spends with her parents is her business not yours.
8. If they move away then that is unlucky, but that is her parents choice and until she gets older she will have to stay with them or with someone else with her parents consent.
9. This is also irrelevant.

This is just my thoughts...

[kyle95]

different cultures have different values mate. she has issues, some relevant to authorities and others to medical professionals. there are government agencies that may allow her to move out of her home and will place her in a safer environment, but she has to be prepared to sever the psychological umbilical cord from her adoptive parents. it's time for her to put on the act and pretend she's no longer interested in you and you both have to figure out a way to communicate outside her environment. She'll know how to reach you, so don't worry about that. also don't cross swords with her idiotic family mate, no matter how tempting it may seem, don't offer fuel for the fire.

[nande]

yeah, as for me if you like her, just like try to get along with her and her parents and stuff... don't give up on her if you like her or you might regret it later...

[ILOVEYOU]

different cultures have different values mate. she has issues, some relevant to authorities and others to medical professionals. there are government agencies that may allow her to move out of her home and will place her in a safer environment, but she has to be prepared to sever the psychological umbilical cord from her adoptive parents. it's time for her to put on the act and pretend she's no longer interested in you and you both have to figure out a way to communicate outside her environment. She'll know how to reach you, so don't worry about that. also don't cross swords with her idiotic family mate, no matter how tempting it may seem, don't offer fuel for the fire.

OMG. . man Why dont you set up a Fan Club for yourself. . i really believe in what you say.
yea. .as Kyle said, Culture difference always make troubles. and in my opinion her parents are right about being angry about you and their doughter having sex, you both are too young for it. . btw its ok in my opinion, but some people are not ok with it, and her parents are one of them. . just wait, and let your girl change the situation in her family for you, maybe she can change it to better. Good Luck , :)

[kyle95]

OMG. . man Why dont you set up a Fan Club for yourself. . i really believe in what you say.
yea. .as Kyle said, Culture difference always make troubles. and in my opinion her parents are right about being angry about you and their doughter having sex, you both are too young for it. . btw its ok in my opinion, but some people are not ok with it, and her parents are one of them. . just wait, and let your girl change the situation in her family for you, maybe she can change it to better. Good Luck , :)

thanks mate :)

i agree 100% with iloveyou, give her time to remedy the situation at home and it may be for the better