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kalkidude
August 4th, 2009, 05:26 AM
I'll try to summarize.
I know when you like both genders, it's called "bisexual".
So sure... I could call myself "bisexual".

But I want to give you more detail about what I feel, and see what you say.

I feel enormous attraction for beautiful girls, but I have noticed it's more emotional/spiritual/non-physical than anything else. It's hard to explain, but I get really deep and nervous when it's a FEMALE. I dream of having a wonderful movie-like romance with a gorgeous artistic girl that is able to accept me for who I am and love me dearly.

Now.. when it comes to teen guys that happen to be attractive... I get really excited. Like sometimes I see a dude waiting for the bus, and I almost can't stop looking at him. That's the situation. I don't picture myself having a boyfriend or living with a guy for the rest of my life, but they can certainly turn me on!!! And I swear, I want to experiment!!!!!

GIRLS: love them to death!!!!
GUYS: can turn me on like no girl can!!!

Thanks in advance for your valuable input :yes:

Fusion
August 4th, 2009, 06:03 AM
I would put it down to our Hormone levels, during puberty they are exceedingly higher which makes you horny and makes you want to experiment for a lot of people :)

Giles
August 4th, 2009, 06:13 AM
I'm going to say that I think it's just hormones, but if it isn't... and you feel the same way at say 20, then I'd say your bisexual.

orangecounty
August 4th, 2009, 06:24 AM
You're sexuality is not apparent to you just yet, so don't try to decide right now unless you are 100% certain. The answer will come with time. I am 17 going on 18 and I still don't think I have mine completely figured out (well I thought I did until about a week ago).

IAMWILL
August 4th, 2009, 06:27 AM
Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality.

YourFriend
August 4th, 2009, 06:53 AM
You are probably straight curious, and not bisexual, altough, only you could see, it looks like that to me. No need to rush with labeling, give it some time.

CestDan
August 4th, 2009, 07:07 PM
Well, first of all let me say that everything you feel is due to hormonal changes. Now, I'm completely sure that some guys have this kind of feelings and they're not necessary to be gay or bi, I mean, they are just curious. Anyway, you have to decide that, it's your mind it's your situation. Remember, nobody but you can fix your own mind and decide what you are.

kalkidude
August 7th, 2009, 05:05 PM
thank you guys!!!
this forum is pretty cool
everyone seems to be very polite and open-minded :)

thepieman
August 11th, 2009, 02:50 PM
Don't be in a rush to label yourself! I'm in a similar position myself, only you can decide for yourself. It'll be down to the hormones, it happens to many of us lol!

punkjake
August 14th, 2009, 11:26 PM
you sound currious to me ,i have teh same problem friend but i feel like i'll end up with a girl being str8 because i always like a girls look ,but guys trun me on but after 2 or 4 fantises its like turn off.long story short your currious or Bi

kalkidude
August 19th, 2009, 01:40 AM
yeaaa conclusion
it's useless to try to label oneself
who cares
the world is too amazing
i know i love girls
i just appreciate beauty wherever it is

yep
all about beauty...