Need to get a guy to stop liking me.

[Natoja12]

Ok so this story involves me a guy and two girls.

Me
Josh
Sarah
Rachel

Ok so Sarah is Joshes younger sister and im her best friend. And Rachel was dating Josh for like a week. But the problem was that he lived 45 minutes away. Then we started to find out info about him....He smokes underage, has made a porno (again underaged), and other small things we dont like about him.....Plus her mom didnt want her to date him so she dumped him. Everything was fine until lately. Ive noticed hes been spending extra time with me. Like he lifts me up when ever i cant reach something, and he carried me once in his arms....But im not at all interested in him, Maily cuz of the smoking and porn as well as that i dont find him attractive and he doesnt take care of his body well (hes very dirty)

I dont no how to get him to stop liking me. Because it turns out hes moving in with his sister (the parents are divorced) and he'll be going to the same high school as me.

[sebbie]

You can't get someone to stop liking you unless you change yourself as a person. You can however let him know where you stand with him. Tell him you only see him as a friend and stuff like that.

[Josh9961]

Just be forward and tell him youre not interested. And maybe it wouldnt hurt just to tell him why

[Allspice_la_fever]

You can't really get someone to stop liking you without hurting them. Just let him know that you don't like him. Eventually, he will move on. If you like him as a friend, let him know. Just be honest.

[IAMWILL]

If you don't like him, don't let him excessively flirt with you. It seems as though at this point your kinda giving in, which you really should resist from. If you ignore him, by that i mean don't flirt with him or show signs of liking him, not as in completely disowning him, he will get the message eventually.

[Natoja12]

the problem is though, i like the attention, alot. And i seem to naturally flirt with anyone i dont no well. like at my grad ceremony some kid ive never spoken more than 5 words with no has a friggin crush on me, because we started talking to each other during Grad. and i ended up with my last boyfriend because when we met just as friends i flirt alot. (And i cant help it, its just me)

I dont no what to do, i like this guy emotionally, like a lot. But i could never imagine kissing him or sleeping with him like i did with my past boyfriends.

[peaceloverugby]

Just tell him that going out with him would be too awkward because you're friends with his sister, and don't want to loses either friendship (the one with her and the one with him) If it really gets heavy, don't be afraid to remind him he has a girlfriend.

[Natoja12]

Just tell him that going out with him would be too awkward because you're friends with his sister, and don't want to loses either friendship (the one with her and the one with him) If it really gets heavy, don't be afraid to remind him he has a girlfriend.

no she broke up with him after a week.

[Maverick]

Whenever you see him around just pick your nose or something gross like that... and maybe that will turn him off from liking you.

[AllThatIsLeft]

okay. LISTEN UP HERE!
DO NOT change anything about yourself.

and get your head straight, it's either you like him, or you dont.
DO NOT lead him on, whatever he might be, he is still a person.

And if you don't want to be with him, there is no reason for him to believe there is a chance.

It isnt so much about him liking you, as you letting him believe there is a chance.

and do not use your flirtyness as an excuse, because i am a natural flirt myself, and it's really easily to give out the stop sign.

[Natoja12]

lol thx untamedwolf. :P

[Ripplemagne]

Tell him you have heavy flow and gonorrhea. Works every time.

[Natoja12]

but i dont want to seem gross or weird, and when my friend broke up with him after only dating him for a week. he turned sorta gothic (Dont mean to offend anyone) and started cutting. (Hes done cutting now that hes busy hanging with me and his sister.) I Don't no how to approach this situation appropriatly without making him go alll suisidle on me.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Let me put this way.
I dont think you want to put a stop to it, or you would of found a way already.

I'm gonna take a wild guess, and say you are curious about this guy, and that is the reason why you keep coming up with excuses.

[Ripplemagne]

But if you don't like him, what's the problem? That would avoid the emotional headache while nipping it in the bud. It is eerie, but subtly throw it in conversation.

"How are you?"

"In pain. Heavy flow."

"lol wut?"

Or you can just go with gonorrhea. That should be enough to get him off your hands, but the heavy flow i the coup de grace.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Chris, be serious. >.<
that is social suicide if not delivered properly.

[Natoja12]

Let me put this way.
I dont think you want to put a stop to it, or you would of found a way already.

I'm gonna take a wild guess, and say you are curious about this guy, and that is the reason why you keep coming up with excuses.

sorta, its just i like his personality but will never ever ever kiss him. And that im scared if i tell him to stop always flirting with me he'll go bk to cutting, and turn even more gothic. He was going to get a chain attached from his nose to ear after my friend broke up with him

[Ripplemagne]

I am being serious. I'd do it.

[Natoja12]

I am being serious. I'd do it.

sorry but i cant, i get embarrased easily.

[Ripplemagne]

You any good at acting?

[Natoja12]

You any good at acting?

yes but that would be embarasing.

[Donkey]

Just avoid him...

[Natoja12]

Just avoid him...

i cant, he lives with my best friend now :(

[Ripplemagne]

I mean, you can act out anything. You can pretend to have a psychological disorder that will off put him.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Okay, can we be serious now?
Chris you are not helping, so please if you are going to post, dont make it seem like a joke.

[Ripplemagne]

I am being very serious. Why? Because I give an unorthodox method of dealing with it, it's not legitimate? Psychologically speaking, humans search for a mate with the best attributes; if she makes herself look less appealing, someone else will overtake her on the ladder. That's the nature of the game.

Even Maverick suggested a similar idea.

[AllThatIsLeft]

1. You are not Ant
2. She already said she wouldn't do it.
3. don't start your weasel talk.

[Ripplemagne]

So, what makes what Ant said any different from what I said? And yes, she said she wouldn't do it and I suggested something else. Problem?

[AllThatIsLeft]

We are not discussing this here. DO NOT post here. You got a problem PM, or MSN me.
It's time this gets back on topic.
I mean it.

[Ripplemagne]

...Okay then.

Perhaps "confide" in him that you have schizophrenia or something along those lines. Then feign clinging to him.

[Donkey]

Actually, watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6s-TfjEGojg

[IAMWILL]

Any more words of arguing, and I or someone else will lock this. That is a warning to everyone in this thread.

[Ripplemagne]

...It's uh... over, dude.

[Natoja12]

...It's uh... over, dude.

that would work, but the problem is he hasnt asked me out yet. But hes treating me as if he had.

[Ripplemagne]

So, build up a "friendship" to confide in him with.