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nullandvoid123
March 15th, 2006, 09:29 PM
well, veteran vt'ers may remember this story, but its changed a little bit since my last visit. i was in love with a girl but she didnt feel the same way for me. usually i can get over girls, but shes diffrent. its been months and i still have some ridiculous far off hope that we can be together because i want to so badly. i cant keep her out of my head. i dream about her and everything. my head tells me i have no chance, but my heart tells me to hold on, just in case. how can i get over her?

Elscire
March 15th, 2006, 09:33 PM
hmm good question. try to get your mind off it by like playing lots of games like i do. or you can ask your parents for a school transfer if you don't want to see her again

nullandvoid123
March 15th, 2006, 09:45 PM
i play games constantly lol i doubt my parents would let me transfer for this too but thanks anyway :)

RowanVer.3.0
March 15th, 2006, 11:03 PM
well, veteran vt'ers may remember this story, but its changed a little bit since my last visit. i was in love with a girl but she didnt feel the same way for me. usually i can get over girls, but shes diffrent. its been months and i still have some ridiculous far off hope that we can be together because i want to so badly. i cant keep her out of my head. i dream about her and everything. my head tells me i have no chance, but my heart tells me to hold on, just in case. how can i get over her?
I remember and I feel you. EXACT same problem with me.. I was about to post something like this myself... Her name was karla or something right?

Anyways, same with me, I want to get over her it's just she's all I ever think about.. When I try to fall asleep, when I'm in school... And I can bearly talk to her when I'm around her... I keep thinking of spending time with her. It's almost as if I have some kind of false picture of who she is in my mind...

Help us people =(

fdsgfg55465
March 15th, 2006, 11:14 PM
look for new options you always have to be open for new girls and learn you can never hold on to something forever :)

nullandvoid123
March 16th, 2006, 11:01 PM
yeah, her name is carly. and thats exactly how i feel man. i can never concentrate because shes always on my mind and it tears me up when we talk... it really sucks.

dieharddingos
March 17th, 2006, 06:22 PM
same with me the girl i like is amazing but thething is i don't want to get over her. i love a chalange andin this case the prise is extrodinary

eternal_kismet00
March 17th, 2006, 08:58 PM
Well I fell in love with a guy and he left...I know exactly how you feel. You never want to leave them and you wonder how they can get over you so quickly and yet there you are wishing to hold them...What helped me is telling them I didn't want to talk to them anymore because it hurt too much. Eventually, without the constant sightings of him I slowly got over him and found someone else...Remind yourself of the bad things she's done to you and keep your eyes open for someone else. Don't run after another girl so quickly if your heart is set. When it's time to leave her behind when you finally meet someone, you'll know. Hope I helped some.

nullandvoid123
March 17th, 2006, 10:05 PM
thanks :)