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Allspice_la_fever
August 3rd, 2009, 01:23 AM
Ok. So, I have a friend who I think I'm pretty close to and I trust him a lot and I tell him everything.
We broke up 2 months ago and we decided we'd still be friends and we have been. But he's always makes me upset.
For the last month or so whenever I talk to him and I say something stupid or something he doesn't agree with, he calls me pathetic. And creepy. Whenever I try to talk to him about it he just laughs or refuses to talk. Recently, he found out that I am terrified of snails and slugs. He said I was pathetic and stupid. He keeps threatening to throw them at me and keeps talking about them to make me feel sick. At first I thought he was just joking but he does it so much I think he's being serious. I've been coming home from school crying and I don't like it.
What should I do?

Bougainvillea
August 3rd, 2009, 01:26 AM
Simple: Flat out tell him to STOP.
That behavior is unacceptable. You don't deserve that kind of treatment.

sweetxnovember
August 3rd, 2009, 01:37 AM
That's abuse.

Tell him to stop or the friendship is over. If that doesn't work, you can always fight dirty back. Blackmailing works nicely. I only recommend doing this if his behavior continues. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.

Allspice_la_fever
August 4th, 2009, 04:33 AM
Ok thanks.
I spoke to him and he said he was sorry and he didn't realise I got so upset.

Bougainvillea
August 4th, 2009, 04:36 AM
That's good. :)
I'm happy for you. :)

Nihilus
August 10th, 2009, 01:59 AM
Tell him to stop.