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tanman
August 2nd, 2009, 10:58 PM
Ok so I have been in a relationship with my current gf since the beginning of summer. she has liked me for 2 years but i never really picked up on it until the end of school. we became good friends and i asked her out, now we are bf/gf. everything was good at first but now its like we are still just the good friends we used to be. we aren't talking on the phone as much, she is saying she is busy more and more and i dont know what to do. :confused: is there something i am doing wrong? i txt her every day or every other day and usually there is no response. is that to often??? thanks

ylllek nivyer
August 3rd, 2009, 12:23 AM
no, your doing the right thing. sometimes girls are fickle. or maybe she's just going through something right now. next chance you get to talk to her, i would suggest that you make sure she's alright, ask her if everything is okay.

tanman
August 3rd, 2009, 12:26 AM
Thanks! Any other advice?

sebbie
August 3rd, 2009, 02:26 PM
People don't change the way they act for no reason. [This applies to all situations not just relationships]

Best bet is to speak to her, ask if everything is alright between you both. You may hear something you do not want to but at least you will have an explanation.

Also usually when people do not answer texts / phone calls they want some space to think about things.