anal sex..

[hardcore-smile]

My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex.
whats it like? will it hurt,? i need some info please. :)

thank you :)(l)

[ylllek nivyer]

yea, it will hurt. even afterwards.
:(
if you really want to, be sure that he is careful and slow.
don't just pound that shit.
be slow and easy. you may want to start off with like fingers first.
and make sure everything is clean.
very clean, him, you. everything.
if it hurts too bad just pull out, cuz it can go really wrong if you aren't carful.

[Θάνατος]

yea, it will hurt. even afterwards.
:(
if you really want to, be sure that he is careful and slow.
don't just pound that shit.
be slow and easy. you may want to start off with like fingers first.
and make sure everything is clean.
very clean, him, you. everything.
if it hurts too bad just pull out, cuz it can go really wrong if you aren't carful.

This is correct.

But anal can be really enjoyable too if your b/f goes slow. I am not sure why your b/f wants to do anal since you have a vagina. Vaginal sex feels so much better for both of you.

[sam.]

ouchh :(

[Donkey]

It will hurt the first time definitely. Most people prefer vaginal much more.

[Cromm]

yea, it will hurt. even afterwards.This is not nessisarily true. If you do it right, there doesn't have to be any pain at all. Not even the first time.


But anal can be really enjoyable too if your b/f goes slow. I am not sure why your b/f wants to do anal since you have a vagina. Vaginal sex feels so much better for both of you. That is strictly a matter of opinon. :P

[nick]

This is not nessisarily true. If you do it right, there doesn't have to be any pain at all. Not even the first time.
I agree.

Its your choice and you shouldnt give in if you're not comfortable with the idea. But just remember that lots of people do it over and over again and really love it. Lots of gay guys prefer to bottom. They wouldnt if it was painful all the time.

[BeautifulSilence]

Okay the MOST important thing you need to think about: LUBE!

Vaginas are designed for sex and self-lubricate, anuses don't. This doesn't mean that you can't enjoy it though. You do need to be very careful though, because the tissues can tear very easily, and due to the waste, it can easily become infected.

You also need to be protected. No condoms are specifically designed for anal sex, but going with "extra safe" versions are usually the best because they are thicker. Also, remember that he should wash his penis thoroughly before going from anal to vaginal.

Also, you need to remember that you BOTH have a say in this. If you don't want to try it, let him know and don't do it unless you both want to. This goes for after the first time too, if one of you loved it and the other hated it, you should both respect each other and come to a decision, together, on what you'll do about it.

[MoveAlong]

Okay the MOST important thing you need to think about: LUBE!

Vaginas are designed for sex and self-lubricate, anuses don't. This doesn't mean that you can't enjoy it though. You do need to be very careful though, because the tissues can tear very easily, and due to the waste, it can easily become infected.

You also need to be protected. No condoms are specifically designed for anal sex, but going with "extra safe" versions are usually the best because they are thicker. Also, remember that he should wash his penis thoroughly before going from anal to vaginal.

Also, you need to remember that you BOTH have a say in this. If you don't want to try it, let him know and don't do it unless you both want to. This goes for after the first time too, if one of you loved it and the other hated it, you should both respect each other and come to a decision, together, on what you'll do about it.

Definitely. I'm glad you mentioned the washing part before going from anal to vaginal. Do you not want to mix the two.

It will hurt less with more lube (lubricate both him and you), and if he goes slowly. If you don't like it don't put up with it...he doesn't own you!

[kyle95]

ask him why he's so fixated with it. why would he want an alternative to the real thing? obviously it's not something you thought about. if he truly loves you, he wouldn't and shouldn't insist on it. that said, i'm not passing judgement on it because there are couples who enjoy that sort of thing, however in your case, it's not something that crossed your mind or something you seem to be missing from your sex life.

[Stealth]

I think the reason he dosnt want vaganal sex is because the risk of pregnancy. I dont think i would be willing to risk it.
This is correct.

But anal can be really enjoyable too if your b/f goes slow. I am not sure why your b/f wants to do anal since you have a vagina. Vaginal sex feels so much better for both of you.

[Charleigh]

ive tried it before and it does hurt but when he comes out it will be vry sore and when u go to the toilet will be a ittle bit painful

just tell him you wanna take it slow, you start the pace slow and then increase the speed and effect.

[LaClaire]

i make my bf use a condom.. i never tried anal but i suggest to get lots of lube because you ass is not a vagina and make sure he knows that! llolololol.



it 100% way to not get pregnant for anal.

hmmmmm anal ....... i'll try it next time and let you know :P

[iceyfresh]

Usually yes but it should be very pleasurable as well to some.

[JackOfClubs]

Be slow and careful and use A LOT of lube. It could lead to serious pain of you don't.

[Aves]

Make sure to use a lot of lube, it will most likely hurt still though.

[chelsay13]

First, do you HONESTLY WANT to have anal sex? If not, don't.

Second, Use lube and a condom.. Make sure you go slow, and you're both clean.

[brownpeds]

YOU NEED LUBE, LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE

the more lube the better :)

[Frankenstein's Bride]

i make my bf use a condom.. i never tried anal but i suggest to get lots of lube because you ass is not a vagina and make sure he knows that! llolololol.



it 100% way to not get pregnant for anal.

hmmmmm anal ....... i'll try it next time and let you know :P


You actually can get pregnant from Anal. There have been cases where the sprem has travelled from the anus to the vagina.

[ackmedsgirl666]

it does infact hurt and will usually require lots of lubrication to the area
i've never had it done but have been told by frineds what its like hence why i have refrained from it
but whatever suits your fancy
i'm not here to tell you waht right or wrong
but i can say that I don't recommend it

[bombasticdude]

it will ...at first...but i guess u will like it later...u can even have a full scale orgasm...just be careful and use lube...

[TheultimatesmilyXD]

Im bi and have had anal it does hurt but after a while it becomes pleasurable.
But rember lots of lube

[Donkey]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: