my girlfriend

[meaghanlovesu]

:mad:ok my girlfriend is amazing but she dose not like that im bi...shes a lesbian.she thinks that im going to cheat on her with guy. how do i reasure her that i wont. its getting on my nervers that she dosnt trust me!!!!!!!

[Truth]

Uhm, may i ask why she's only worried about you cheating with a guy? What is the difference, even? And you can't do much but not cheat, and keep telling her you won't.

[Edgehead1995]

I'm not too good with relationship stuff but I would tell her that she'll have to trust you and stuff.

[beedubs]

Wait is she bi or a lesbian. Jw

[drpepper21]

Wait is she bi or a lesbian. Jw

please read the first post again. shes a lesbian.

trust is a major part of a relationship, she has to trust you in order for your relationship to work.

[Viral Death]

please read the first post again. shes a lesbian.

trust is a major part of a relationship, she has to trust you in order for your relationship to work.

Correct!

You have to trust her and she needs to trust you!

[Allspice_la_fever]

Exactly. Trust is needed to make it work. Maybe you should talk to her about why she's so worried, then maybe you will find it easier to let her know that you wouldn't do that.

[meaghanlovesu]

blaaaaaaah i told her that i would not cheat but she said she dosnt trust me

[ShatteredWings]

Okay. Relax. k?


If she really thinks you're going to cheat on her, how much trust do you think this girl has in you?

[AllThatIsLeft]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: R&D

[tripolar]

blaaaaaaah i told her that i would not cheat but she said she dosnt trust me

If she has that much of a lack of trust maybe you should reconsider going out with her. Trust is a major part of a relationship and if there is no trust it might not work out.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Sit down with her. Talk to her and tell her how exactly how you feel. The key to a healthy relationship is communication and without it the walls come tumbling down. Your lucky to have her, you love her by choice and she loves you. Just be calm about it dont force the envolope.

[Aves]

Tell her how you would never EVER cheat on her with another guy, just let her know that. Not much more to say.

[YesterdaysNews]

why is it such a big deal to her that you might cheat on her with a GUY? you could also cheat on her with a girl if you chose to, but she seems to be making a big deal about guys. try talking to her and asking her why she's so worried that you might cheat on her. explain how much your relationship with her means to you, and that you'd never want to hurt her like that or in any way.
it could be that she feels insecure. maybe she thinks that someone better might come along and snatch you away (thats how my boyfriend feels). if thats the case, you just need to remind her constantly that you wont cheat on her, that nobody can steal you away from her.

hope that helps :]

[Sapphire]

Ugh, biphobia raises its ugly head once again.
I'm sorry that you are having to face this pig-headed attitude.
One of my past girlfriends had the same attitude as yours does.

Tbh it doesn't matter how much you reassure them. You could do it until you are blue in the face and it wouldn't change anything. I know it isn't what you want to hear, but if they think you're going to run off with a member of the opposite sex then they aren't going to be swayed by anything.

[meaghanlovesu]

i broke up with her

[Sapphire]

:hug3: I'm sorry to hear that but it is for the best

[NeoKitai]

It's for the best as biphobia ruined your relationship. Sorry to hear that you lost her, though.

[Aves]

Sorry to hear that, break ups always sucks.

[sebbie]

I would not say that it is Biphobia that has been the downfall in your relationship, more due to a lack of trust. Relationships are all about trust, if both partners do not trust each other there will always be suspicions. This can lead to issues..

Oh well there are 1000000000000 of people out there and I am sure you will meet the boy/girl for you.

[Sapphire]

I would not say that it is Biphobia that has been the downfall in your relationship, more due to a lack of trust. Relationships are all about trust, if both partners do not trust each other there will always be suspicions. This can lead to issues..

Oh well there are 1000000000000 of people out there and I am sure you will meet the boy/girl for you.
Biphobia is what makes people adopt the attitude her ex-gf has. The mistrust is a part of it, not something separate.

[meaghanlovesu]

im so happy

[Aves]

im so happy

Y r u so happy?