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[Rawr]

im in foster care and my dad gave me up when i was younger but he came to see me every weekend about 5 years ago today he killed himselfe and then about a year ago my mom died my real siblings who lived with my mom blame me for it they say its all my fault i know my dad killed himselfe cuz he could not take care of me but is it really my fault? i meen it feels like it is and it hurts so much.

[Bougainvillea]

Of course not.
I'm so sorry.
It's hard, but you need to keep your chin up and stay strong.
*Little jaw punch and hug*

[Rawr]

so even though everyone says its all my fault that i killed them i dident?

[Bougainvillea]

What?
No!
Absolutely not.

[Rawr]

but my dad did kill him selfe cuz of me

[Bougainvillea]

Your dad killed himself on his own behalf.

You can't think like that.
It does you no good.

[Rawr]

but i meen look at it this way if i was never born he would still be alive

[Bougainvillea]

If you were never born, alot of things would be different. :)

Don't put this unfair pressure on yourself.

[Rawr]

i guess ur right but i still feel like its kinda all my fault

[Bougainvillea]

Don't.
You can't take responsibility for his actions. And if they say it's your fault, don't listen to them. Because they're wrong. :)

[dstnyisurs]

It is not your fault at all.
Those were his actions. He would probably be upset if he knew you were blaming him.
You are not responsible. Feel free to PM me if you need anything.

[Rawr]

thanks it just hurts you know that everyone blames me then i start to believe it

[Zeavix]

im in foster care and my dad gave me up when i was younger but he came to see me every weekend about 5 years ago today he killed himselfe and then about a year ago my mom died my real siblings who lived with my mom blame me for it they say its all my fault i know my dad killed himselfe cuz he could not take care of me but is it really my fault? i meen it feels like it is and it hurts so much.

Of course its not your fault.My dad did the same thing and depressed the hell out of me but its not your fault.Its not anybodys fault except his because he made a bad choice.Just remember nobody can control what a person does but them selfs.

[meetthecreeper]

listen you cant blame yourself for what other people bring on themselfs. he knew the responsibility he would have to take on before having you .he didnt pay any attention to it then when he tried to step up to the plate he pussyed out. you were a child incapable of sin and that happened no way in any way is it your fault. he could not deal with his problems so he killed himself. dont do what he did ...SO handle your problem constructivley and not destructivley. listen if you need real good life advise email me and i will give u my number.

[Kasoy]

im in foster care and my dad gave me up when i was younger but he came to see me every weekend about 5 years ago today he killed himselfe and then about a year ago my mom died my real siblings who lived with my mom blame me for it they say its all my fault i know my dad killed himselfe cuz he could not take care of me but is it really my fault? i meen it feels like it is and it hurts so much.

its not your fault, but i would say that it would be best to talk to a counselor,
possibly a school counselor (Most schools should have them).
it would ease "pain and suffering". :yes:

[iceyfresh]

That is awfull and it is not your fault at all. Im really sorry

[TheTruth]

Sorry bout tht BUT ur siblings (no offense) are blind! He was the one who decided to see you every weekend out of his good nature. I dont know all the details but not one point in that did you mention that your siblings came to see you. They could of helped look after you but they didn't. If they ever blame you again just ask them where they were to help him.

I hope this is useful but seen as i dont know the details then i hope you find something useful :)