why would my friend do this :'(

[kt2369]

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[Project Delta]

Just ignore her seriously! She is not the short of person you want to be around! Because she is just making it worse for you!

30 days is such a long time to restart from! trust me it takes it out of you when you realised you need to get up that high again and although i'm sure you can do it do your really want to be set back by so long? ITs definitely a long time!

She seem's like she is just jealous and who cares if she leaves them on your doorstep as long as she doesnt leave a note with them you can probably through the suggestion in that they are just a prank from a randomer

[kt2369]

i get what your saying. its just that she is the only person that really knows ME. she knows me more than i know myself. shes the only person i ever trusted. i dont know how this will work. my other friends are big mouthes.. i have no one to tell now.

[ackmedsgirl666]

this person does'nt sound like a very good friend at all if they are doing this to you
perhaps you shud email them and tell them how they are making you feel
good luck ;)

[dstnyisurs]

Love, my advice would be to just cool off and not talk to her for a bit. Give her a chance to get over herself. She's being immature and insensitive, and she needs to just unwedge her panties and straighten herself out. I would simply tell her that you don't realize why she is acting so insensitive to you, but you would prefer not to talk to her until she can tell you clearly why she's mad at you and how you can improve on it. Try to phrase it using phrases like, "I feel sad when..." not, "You make me so...". Using "you" can make her feel like you are accusing her, and she will automatically become defensive and rude towards you.
It sounds like you two both need to step back and think about stuff. (Well, mainly her.) She is not worth you breaking 30 days. No one is ever worth a drop of your blood. If you need to talk , I'm here. (:
Remember, their insenstive insults are only because they are too caught up in themselves to voice their feelings properly. You do not need to listen to them. You're amazing, love.

[kt2369]

thanks dstnyisurs.
that really makes sence. she calls/texts sometimes. i dont get it.
she is pissed that i bought a sweatshirt she was going to buy[she hates it when people copy her]
and i dont know what her problem is; last night she told me how suprised she was that i didnt kill myself... she claims that she texts/calls to make sure im alive.

[dstnyisurs]

That's rather silly. She sounds like she doesn't know what she wants out of your friendship.

[Beautiful Obsession]

She obv isnt a true friend - and never has been, because if she ever cared about you before, she wouldnt make jokes about what your going through and leave the razors for your family to find, my opinion - ignore her and mke new friends who you can TRUST. just forget about her, i know its hard to lose a best friend. as you said she knows you more than anyone, but eventually you will gain a better friend who will support you no mater what,

just ignore the sny comments she makes, just think, how did i ever trust her?

dont worry bbe it will get better - promise:D

feel free to pm me if ya need to talk x

[kt2369]

thanks guys(:
she said she was trying to scare me and it was a joke, so i guess it isnt that bad. i told her to stop making jokes about my face and she said she would stop so i guess things might get better