how to approch girls

[Leprachaun]

How would you approach a girl that you like? what sort of a conversation would you start? If it was some know and you liked them what would you do to get out with them? What way have you done it before?
obviously this is more for guys but if girls have any advice :D thanks!

[Allspice_la_fever]

Hey,
Approaching girls that you like is probably not as hard as you think it is. Just go up to her and talk to her. If she has none of her friends I reckon its easier coz when I'm around my friends and guys are talking to me they kinda act all awkward. Maybe you could just go and sit with her group one day and start talking to them as a group. We like it when guys are nice to our friends.
You can really talk about anything, as long as its not too deep if you know what I mean. Stuff like music, subjects... Talk about the bands you like. Be natural, and try not to be awkward.
As for asking girls out, I can't speak for everyone but I reckon getting to know her a bit and then just asking her out, like not by text or msn, unless you think she'd like that. Most girls would just prefer you to be straight out. If she says no, move on. And if she says I'll think about it, it's not becuase she doesn't like you. She probably just wants to talk about it with someone like a close friend.
If it helps talk to her when she's not with her friends as it makes it awkward not only for you but often her as well.
Hope this helps
Good luck

[kyle95]

Hey,
Approaching girls that you like is probably not as hard as you think it is. Just go up to her and talk to her. If she has none of her friends I reckon its easier coz when I'm around my friends and guys are talking to me they kinda act all awkward. Maybe you could just go and sit with her group one day and start talking to them as a group. We like it when guys are nice to our friends.
You can really talk about anything, as long as its not too deep if you know what I mean. Stuff like music, subjects... Talk about the bands you like. Be natural, and try not to be awkward.
As for asking girls out, I can't speak for everyone but I reckon getting to know her a bit and then just asking her out, like not by text or msn, unless you think she'd like that. Most girls would just prefer you to be straight out. If she says no, move on. And if she says I'll think about it, it's not becuase she doesn't like you. She probably just wants to talk about it with someone like a close friend.
If it helps talk to her when she's not with her friends as it makes it awkward not only for you but often her as well.
Hope this helps
Good luck


great advice.

just walk up to her mate and say hi. don't be nervous or awkward. tell her the truth, that you've noticed her and think she's nice. as for asking her out, you may want to give her the option of bringing a friend along. go somewhere public and make her always feel safe. don't put her in a situation where she may feel awkward - no heavies or dumping mate. be her friend and keep it that way. pick her up at her house, meet her folks and bring her back on time. good luck mate

[ILOVEYOU]

great advice.

just walk up to her mate and say hi. don't be nervous or awkward. tell her the truth, that you've noticed her and think she's nice. as for asking her out, you may want to give her the option of bringing a friend along. go somewhere public and make her always feel safe. don't put her in a situation where she may feel awkward - no heavies or dumping mate. be her friend and keep it that way. pick her up at her house, meet her folks and bring her back on time. good luck mate

another Calming advice from Kyle. . . . ! ! :D

[sebbie]

How would you approach a girl that you like? what sort of a conversation would you start? If it was some know and you liked them what would you do to get out with them? What way have you done it before?
obviously this is more for guys but if girls have any advice :D thanks!

It all depends on the situation, you have to consider the girl,her friends,where you are.

For example, just walking up to and approaching a single girl when her friends are not there may be fine in school but if you are out, eg in town centre a club then she might feel more vulnerable.

So maybe if you can provide more detail we can give better advice.

[Ripplemagne]

I wrote a guide (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=47185) on these sort of situations. Give it a read; it covers this exact dilemma. :P

[Leprachaun]

thanks everyone. great advice

[Northern]

Such good advices! ^-^

[FullyAlive]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: