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[jocklin]

my gf wants to have sex and i said i promised god that i wont have it until im20 so i said yeah but im to scared to show her my penis help me

[schmitty09]

if she really loves you,she wont care about your penis

[ThUnDeR]

if you promised its your choice weather you wanna break it or not we cant help you with that but why are you scared too show her your penis???

[Patchy]

Moved to R&D

If your not comfortable then explain saying you think you aren't ready for sex at this stage in the relationship and that you would rather wait a while.

[YourFriend]

if she really loves you,she wont care about your penis

Yap.

[Cromm]

You promissed God you wouldn't sin untill you're 20? Are you for real? No, really, are you for real?


If you're for real: do you mind rephrasing that in whole sentences please? What did you say 'yeah' to, sex or showing her your penis?

:/

[jocklin]

i was scared to show her cause its my first time having sex

[jocklin]

i said yeah to sex

[plopalopa]

wel i think u shud b happy uve found sum1 hu wants to hav sex with u and just pump away! =D

but then agen if u truey want to stay tru to ur pact then dnt do it!!

[ThUnDeR]

oh well if your scared maybe you arent comfortable about the fact of sex i would say not to do it but u deciede

[kyle95]

get rid of your abstractions and fears and focus on the real thing - the girl mate

[nick]

jocklin - try not to double post mate, use the edit button

Its perfectly natural to feel very self concious the first time you're naked in front of a girl, many, many people would feel the same, I know I did. It was like one thing I'd been taught from a young age not to let a girl see my penis, and I was worried whether she'd think it was too small, and so yes, it can be frightening in a way.

The thing is if you cant overcome that worry then obviously you're not yet ready for sex, and you are still quite young. So its perfectly acceptable to tell her that you dont feel comfortable about having sex just jet. If she loves you she will respect you for that and we willing to wait. Otherwise I would suggest starting out with your underwear left on, and just see how things go. If you get aroused enough you'll want her to take those undies off I can assure you!

[YesterdaysNews]

most girls dont care about penis size. if you dont feel comfortable having sex yet, then just tell her, im sure she's just as scared (unless shes had sex before). most girls are even more self concious, i know i am. if she really cares about you, she'll wait.

[LismLFC]

jocklin - try not to double post mate, use the edit button

Its perfectly natural to feel very self concious the first time you're naked in front of a girl, many, many people would feel the same, I know I did. It was like one thing I'd been taught from a young age not to let a girl see my penis, and I was worried whether she'd think it was too small, and so yes, it can be frightening in a way.

The thing is if you cant overcome that worry then obviously you're not yet ready for sex, and you are still quite young. So its perfectly acceptable to tell her that you dont feel comfortable about having sex just jet. If she loves you she will respect you for that and we willing to wait. Otherwise I would suggest starting out with your underwear left on, and just see how things go. If you get aroused enough you'll want her to take those undies off I can assure you!

Best answer here ;D

But I will say this, I was in the exact same position a while back, some girl wanted sex but I didn't, to be honest I didn't care what she thought about it (don't get me wrong I cared about her) if she dumped me because of sex it's her loss right?

I don't wanna scare you but the week after she dumped me but given the reason, I didn't care. Now she's the "school slut". :yes: I dont regret it at all either. So if I was your friend, I would discourage this given the circumstances. ;P