Am I Reading Him Wrong Because I Want To?

[The Harlequin]

I originally posted this in a private message,
But now I just don't know if I'm reading this whole situation wrong ~ if I'm seeing what I want to see rather than what's actually happeneing, ya know?

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I mean like today ~ I lost my wallet and realised I must've left it in the cinema when me and him went to see The Hangover the other day, I briefly mention my theory to him ~ that might be where I left it ~ on MSN and he said if he was in town, he'd stop off and ask, and I said "Great, thanks but don't inconvenience yourself too much" sort of thing to not give him the hastle, or feel like he HAD to do it,

So I go out for the day to Nottingham with family, and when I get back my wallet's on the doormat.

He walked all the way into town to the cinema to get my wallet back and then walked the two miles out of his way to my house just to post it back to me!!! How sweet is that?! <3

OMG! I could just kiss him and hold him forever!!!

I mean ~ to me that says there's something there, even a very good mate wouldn't go to that length, surely? Or is this just wishful thinking...?

I dunno, second oppinions?

[confusedboy]

wishful thinking inless u no hes gay... idk what he's like or ur other experiences with im r like. thtd b great if he does like u ;)

[Cromm]

That is very sweet, but it doesn't nessessarily mean he's romantically interested in you.

There are people out there who are just that nice.

I'm not saying it -doesn't- mean something, I'm just saying it doesn't -have to- mean something.

[Poker Face]

Exactly what person above said... It CAN be a sign, but doesn't have to. Some people are just that nice and willing to do a lot of stuff for friends ^^

[The Harlequin]

Cool, yeah I guess you're right, so what should I do? Just sit it out until I have mor evidence to prove or disprove he's gay? That is what I'm doing atm but is that the best course of action?

Ughhh, if he is straight I'll be bummed...

[Poker Face]

Well, try to talk about stuff like that and see what he thinks... Or try to make a step and see his reaction, if he's cool with it keep going or he might start too, if not, just tell you're fooling around or something :D

[Blue63]

That is a very sweet thing to do, but like said above doesn't really prove much. Although I'm not sure I would do that for even a very good friend.

What's his romantic past? Has he had girlfriends before? You can always wait for more evidence, but there may be just as much evidence in the past waiting for you. You may want to look into those girlfriends see how they ended what happened etc etc

[Yesterdays Hero]

It really could be either one, a 50/50 type thing. If you could find out if he's gay, then that could help you out a lot, it would go from being a 50/50 chance to being at least a 60/40 chance or a 40/60 chance depending on what his sexuality ended up being. If you want to try and find out if he's gay or not, the best way to start searching, is to talk to him about homosexuality and things like that.

[clr9823]

God knows I read huge amounts into the actions of this guy I fancy, so I know how it feels. But in this case, honestly, I would do this for any of my good friends if it didn't inconvenience me too much so I don't think there is much to read into unless you have other examples.

[The Joker]

I'm sorry to say, he may just be that nice.

[The Harlequin]

That is a very sweet thing to do, but like said above doesn't really prove much. Although I'm not sure I would do that for even a very good friend.

What's his romantic past? Has he had girlfriends before? You can always wait for more evidence, but there may be just as much evidence in the past waiting for you. You may want to look into those girlfriends see how they ended what happened etc etc

He's never had a gf/bf before, he tells me so whenever I talk about past rationships I've had an stuff, and yeah ~ he does say both,

I reply with like "You'll get one, don't worry about it, you never know who you'll meet..." etc. And that's the conversation,

[Blue63]

He's never had a gf/bf before, he tells me so whenever I talk about past rationships I've had an stuff, and yeah ~ he does say both,

I reply with like "You'll get one, don't worry about it, you never know who you'll meet..." etc. And that's the conversation,

Wow this situation really is challenging, I mean that could mean he just hasn't had a chance yet, doesn't mean he's gay. I was hoping there would be something more there, I guess you'll just have to wait out any further hints. I'm terribly sorry, good luck.

[kyle66]

I'm the kind of guy who would just ask about his sexuality. I find that if I'm honest with someone they often return the favour.