How you know ?

[ravel]

I havent yet and dont plan to for quite a while *college and so on* but they say to keept going for the girl to have her point during sex.

but how do you know when shes had it so you can quit ? and does it become unbarrable to do so ?

[kyle95]

i'm not certain you can discuss technique and your question may be borderline.

first of all mate, it's not a contest. if there's love, i doubt you'll hang in longer as girls in general take longer. you ought to be worried about keeping up with her. you'll know if she's experiencing one and chances are if you haven't fired by then, you will mate, because it'll be too exciting for the both of you

[sebbie]

I think what you are trying to get at is how long does it take for a girl to climax during sex?

Different people can "last" different times, some people may not even orgasm during sex, just the way it is. But I can say that when one partner climaxes the other will notice.

[ACQD139F83J]

The idea is that if a man is good at it, she will climax before he does.

[Donkey]

Hey Ravel,

While having sex, when the girl reaches the climax they'll probably make a noise. Like most so when they masturbate, however sex is more intense so the person who is climaxing will probably make more of a noise. However, they'll probably be doing that all the way through so it's not a great way of telling. Just a sudden scream.

They might ask you to stop when they're done, or they might tell you. You could discuss this with them before hand so you know what you want to do, and have any signals when the girl does climax so you know what to do when she does.

Remember though, not to rush into sex. Make sure you're fully protected as always :)