if you had a choice

[Scar]

if you had a choice of choosing to be gay or str8. what would it be? :wink:

[what the?]

Oh my god... No doubt about it. GAY! lol I really love being gay. I can do whatever I want, cos I don't like have to be masculine or play football or anything lol. plus , you get on with girls a lot better. i don't know why that would appeal to a gay guy, but you know. girls are cool lol. also, gay guys tend to be better looking than strait guys ;) lol. and i would hope that other gay guys would wanna stay gay aswell! cos it rocks! :D

[redcar]

i agree being gay does rock!!:D

[Scar]

not all the time sometimes it fucking sucks :( and other times its good. :D

[what the?]

yeah, I just didn't really like being strait. you have to impress all these girls, who usually have really high expectations. and like gay guys don't really seem to care as much lol. and you don't have to comform to anything. being gay's almost like a blank canvas. cos people haven't really been openly gay for that long. so you can be whoever you want to be. I mean i geuss there are gay stereotypes, but then again i geuss there are for any social minority. oh well, i'm rambling lol. so ya... GAY! lol

[Scar]

where i use to live you wouldnt want to be gay or bi. go to the room gay thoughts and then go to how is it being gay where you. its something like that.

[what the?]

well to be honest, that doesn't effect me. i mean ya, people call me gay, but it really doesn't bother me. i couldn't care less what people think about me anyway. but that sucks that you had to put up with that. i'm gald you're living somewhere better now. :D

[Scar]

i am glad to. but it would be nice if no one look at me because i am with a guy. thats why i havent gone out with a guy in a while. turn down this cute boy last week. but i am going to go wit him now because of redcar.

[what the?]

coolio! *thumbs up* so what made you change your mind? besides redcar lol

[Scar]

to tell you the truth i dont know. i gues i thought of redcars words and find them true and he is my friend for that.

[what the?]

well isn' that nice lol. oh well, good for you! good luck with your... romance :S lol.

[Scar]

i hope it is romance and not just sex. :?

[redcar]

well if its just for sex and you dont want it just for sex send the boy on his way! but there are plenty of guys out there who want romance!:D

[what the?]

what's he like? i'm sure he's nice lol

[Scar]

he is really funny but kind of dumb wit school work. he dress in skateboarder clothes i think that is what it is and he is polite, well to me.

[redcar]

polite is a very good quality to have.

[what the?]

he sounds nice

[Scar]

he is nice but not the type i would date. oh well dosent hurt to try something new.....wait it does.

[redcar]

if you dont wanna date him then you shouldnt go out with him.

[Scar]

i kinda do to see how it is or if i like that type and he is a gringo.

[redcar]

whats a gringo?

[Scar]

gringo sta un white boy

[redcar]

oh rite i see.

[Scar]

my family would be mad if i dated a white girl i wonder what would do or say if they knew i am about to date a white boy. they dont want me to mix our race. at least i cant wit him. :lol:

[redcar]

lol thats very true!

[Scar]

the truth is i want a baby in the future. wit my blood in him/her. but that will mess up the babys enviroment. 2 dads, i dont want my baby to turn gay because of me. :cry:

[redcar]

yuor baby wouldnt turn gay because of you. like both your parents are str8 and you are gay. i personally think people are born gay or str8 and it has very little to do with upbringing, so i wouldnt worry about that.

[Charlotte]

like both your parents are str8 and you are gay. .

that's the best counter argument to say gay couples will raise gay children

[Scar]

i am dumb redcar. i always look for bad and pass the good in things.

[redcar]

nah your not dumb! i'm just an optimist always see the good!!:D

[Scar]

one thing you cannot disagree wit is he/she will be picked on. one way or another he/she will be picked on.

[redcar]

yea thats teh problem cause we dont like in a fully accepting world. which is sad and why i would be against gay adoption.

[Scar]

i am not going to adopt a baby. i want my baby to have my blood. you are getting a baby.

[Scar]

i mean are you going to get a baby?

[redcar]

i would not adopt a baby, purely cause i am gay and wouldnt like to raise a child in a gay environment.

[what the?]

i'm gunna adopt. to be honest, i don't think i should make a difference whether i'm gay or strait. like you said before, you're gay and your parents are strait. plus, it's just kinda like saying, 'i wouldn't want my child being raised in a strait enviroment'?! our sexuality shouldn't affect our child. it's not like it's a 'part' of me, like a personality trait. anyhoooo, I have friends who have have/are gay parents and they're like totally cool, so ya! lol. omg, everytime i say something, I always seem to divulge something rediculously random and philosiphical lol. i'm just a random tangent machine :P

[Scar]

i am not going to adopt. i will have a baby wit my blood. but i wonder if thell let us adopt in the future.

[what the?]

I don't really see why not, but then again ameriky is kinda bollucks when it comes to homosexuality. but there you go. so what, are you planning to use a suraget mother? with a doner egg?

[Scar]

maybe :?

[what the?]

lol, sorry. I ask too many questions. :D

[redcar]

my problme with same sex couples adopting is that the child will more than likely be subject to a lot of abuse from peers. i am not saying they wouldnt be good parents they would prob be great parents i just dont think we should subject a child to the homophobic world unecessarly.

[what the?]

yeah i geuss, although here in England, i don't really think it's all that bad. i mean ya, people call me gay and stuff, but it never really gets much worse than that. i've never got like beaten up or anything, or like been bullied. maybe i'm just lucky, i don't know.

[Scar]

you never know how much it will change in our future.

[what the?]

that's true

[Scar]

you are lucky. gay at my old school got beat up and other things happen. now if i came out there i would be in some trouble. but this school just call you names. but if they call me names i'll make there face beat up my hands. but dont get me wrong i am nice only if there nice to me.

[what the?]

lol. yeah, and i think cos it doens't really bother me, they prob kinda pick up on that and just leave me alone. but then again, they are just dumb chavs lol. :P

[redcar]

lol dumb chavs!!! its funny how ignorant and ridiculous they can be.

[what the?]

it's wierd how this has gone from being gay, to gay adoption :S, to dumb chavs. and since the start of this post, no one apart from us has actually stated whether, if they had a choice, what sexuality they would choose lol. oh well

[redcar]

lol thats very true just shows how easily it is to diversify when u are just talking!! so back to the topic in hand.............YAY FOR GAY!!!:D:D

[what the?]

lol, we really do rock don't we?! so much better than any other sexuality, because we're just so free and easy... and erm, gay lol \o/ woohooo

[redcar]

exactly we are as free as a bird.....providing you are not in the dreaded closet!!!

[Scar]

bi is better because more chances of go wit someone.

[what the?]

i don't know, my bi friends are cool, but sometimes they say it's kinda confusing or irritating, not knowing who you really like, or who you really are. but i can't really say, seeing as i'm not bi lol. *shivers* the..... closet. dun dun DUN! lol

[Scar]

oh and me and the boy going out now.

[what the?]

you and the boy? is this that dude you were talking about yesterday? well good for you. WOOO GAY PRIDE!

[redcar]

nice one man, i'm happy for ya, hope things go great!!:D

[Scar]

yes that boy, now i wonder how long i will date him.

[what the?]

that's SO cool. well done! :D i'm sure you'll have many happy years to come lol