I'm torn :(

[HOLEinyoursoul]

There are two girls who i really like. My ex who is very sweet, funny, interested in what im in, but is very shhy about being affectionate. Then there is Casey who is funny, sweet, outrageous, and is not as shy about being affectionate. I feel more alive when im with her. My ex lives closer and Casey lives a half hour away... help? I love them both

[kyle95]

be friends to both mate. no need to commit yet. sooner of later something will happen and the scales will tip one way or the other. Don't judge a girl by how outgoing she is. it's not fair to her. i hope you're much deeper than that, for their sake. i wouldn't want my gf to dump me for a funnier, or more outgoing bloke. if one is already your "ex", the problem is solved, move on.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

well im saying her outrageousness is part of her amazing personality. Notice i did not judge on looks. I'm judging on personality traits which is a good thing. i want someone as crazy as me.

[Diadora]

Well, opposites attract, and like it was above, there is a reason she is your ex.

[kyle95]

then revisit why she became your ex, and see what steps you can take to avoid similar mistakes in the future. perhaps you both grew and learned from your experiences. good luck mate

[sebbie]

Ex's are ex's for a reason, see how it goes with the other girl.

[Sceneboy612]

Well i am going to say that you should try to date casey. The reason why i think you should date her is because you feel more alive with her, And because you had problems with your ex already, and you havent said about problems with casey.

The Half-hour away is not two far away, and that distance is really not much of a problem for a relationship.

Hope i helped :)

[HOLEinyoursoul]

mehhh it's just... idk if casey likes me as much as i like her

[Sceneboy612]

But if you two went out, you might grow to like her more than you did to your ex

[kyle95]

then drop the issue of a relationship and look for friendship. that way you don't have to keep guessing or oblige them to show their cards when they're also forming and opinion. give yourself and them some slack mate