Life Fucking Sucks

[teenanx94]

ok.... so 5 years ago my parents got divorced and now my mom is engaged to someone in California. we are all trying to move there cause he can't move here and I really want to move and I really don't at the same time. I have all my friends here and would feel like a total duesh if I moved away. (I live in Michigan). I want to move away from my dad but I still want to stay here cause I don't want to have to start all over again on the other side of the country but at the same time my mom is really happy with this guy. we just got home from visiting him today and she was crying when he dropped us at the airport. I really like the guy to. my mom says she will back me up 100% on what I want to do but if I say that I want to stay here she will be misreble cause she isn't with russ. I don't want to make her misreble but part of me wants to stay here and part of me wants to haul ass as fast as possible to California. this whole thing has caused me a lot of stress and depression. I don't know what to do. please give me advice. or pm me.

[Hyper]

Well if you like the guy and want your mother to be happy the answer to me seems obvious

You can always stay in touch with your friends even if its just online.. I see my best friend maybe 1-3 times a year and its been that way for awhile but nothings really changed.

[Θάνατος]

This sounds like a good opportunity for you. Leaving friends and making news ones is always hard. One thing you van can always keep in touch with your old friends by calling texting or IM online. Hopefully if things don't work out for you, you could move back in with your dad.

I think you should at least give this a try California offers a lot more things to do than other states. I hope this has helped.

[Beautiful Obsession]

i think this is really harsh that its all put on you to decide your and your mothers future - you should talk with your mum 1 to 1. basicly tell her exctly what you have just wrote on this thread, if you dont feel comfortable talkin to her, email it to her or write her a letter, she wil lhelp you decide.. obviously your going through alot of stress as you dont want to hurt your mums feelings but dont want to depart your life where you are now xx