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rugbykidd
July 28th, 2009, 08:38 PM
There is this girl, and when we met it was like love at first sight. but after a few months of getting closer we had a huge argument and i ignored her for 3 weeks, she texted and phoned me daily.
As i made the decision to try and resolve things she said to me that she loved me before, but couldnt ever love me again.

Anyways. we resolved things about a month ago, and we are close again, but i dont know if she loves me again or not. What is making it more difficult is that i love her with all my heart and dont want to risk losing her again.

:S

Aneklusmos
July 28th, 2009, 09:21 PM
Treat her like gold if ya wanna keep her. She seems like she wanted to still be with you. If you're nice and kind and you both love each other you should stay together.

kyle95
July 28th, 2009, 09:30 PM
mate, ignoring her for 3 weeks is a form of control. you must demonstrate to her that you'll never do that again and that you've recognised your mistake. do tell her that you love her unconditionally - translation: don't expect her to reciprocate, yet. and do tell her that she doesn't have to respond or say anything. just be her friend and earn her trust again. you put her through hell for three weeks. good luck mate