sex?

[venom832]

iknow this a weird akward /question but ihear alot of girls talking about there boyfriend being bad at having sex. the thing idont understand is how are you bad at it? im still a virgin and ready but idont want to be "boring/suck" at it

[Silverfist64]

Well, the most obvious thing is that they are new at it. Basically, everyone should suck at sex their first time. Its something new and you would need to get the hang of it. Now ive tried explaining something like this and it got confusing so im gonna compare it to baseball. Ok, lets say you just started baseball for the first time. Now, you can be naturally good at it but chances are...your not. Over time and the more you play the sport the better you get at it (in most cases). So, yea, thats basically the main idea. Its ok to suck at sex and you might get better at it over time so be patient. Same for those guys who have girlfriends ratting on them.

[nick]

Well we're not allowed to discuss any techniques.

The most important thing is to remember that the aim of the game is to give her pleasure, not to blow your load and get done with it. Plenty of foreplay, and just give her lots of love and attention. If you finish first, make sure you dont leave it at that.

[kdddd]

Well, the most obvious thing is that they are new at it. Basically, everyone should suck at sex their first time. Its something new and you would need to get the hang of it. Now ive tried explaining something like this and it got confusing so im gonna compare it to baseball. Ok, lets say you just started baseball for the first time. Now, you can be naturally good at it but chances are...your not. Over time and the more you play the sport the better you get at it (in most cases). So, yea, thats basically the main idea. Its ok to suck at sex and you might get better at it over time so be patient. Same for those guys who have girlfriends ratting on them.


wow this is a great answer !!!! good job!!!!!!!!!!!!! this is really all that needs to be said

[kyle95]

i suspect the girls are complaining about how inconsiderate some blokes are. remember, a girl is trusting you and allowing you to make love to her. it would help if you first of all love her. that way she doesn't feel used. second, consider her needs and feelings too. in other words don't focus solely on getting your jollies. girls know the difference between a bloke that cares and a selfish one. my advice: don't do it with just any girl, save it for the one you fall in love with mate

[bowlheadhere]

Well, like anything, you are going to "suck" at it the first time you do it. Think back to the first time you began your passion, were you amazing at it? You practiced and became better at it. I feel as though that is the same.

[CestDan]

Well, this is a good question. Movies, programs and more can give us ideas about the "ideal sex lover" but in reality, sex is more than just an action. It has many feelings involved and values like love, affection, respect and responsibility. All of this (currently) isn't being noticed and teenagers thing that sex is just the act of... well, you know. I think that we have to understand that nobody can be bad or good in sex, everyone is different and has different points of view about it. We have to be conscious.

[Skeln]

With movies and such, people begin to think of sex as the greatest thing in the world, and for some it is. But for others it doesn't add up to what they expect so they blame their partner because peopel, expecially horny teens, don't want to think it wasn't pleasurable as it could have been because of themselves.

[Giles]

oyu'll get better over time.

[ACQD139F83J]

Lots of guys just think about themselves, and whats making them feel good. A member of a good pair will never worry about their own pleasure, because their partner is thinking about them, and they're thinking about their partner. Also, the guy needs to get the girl to achieve orgasm before they do, because a girl can keep on going and (mostly) a guy can't.

I don't think this counts as talking about technique, because I'm only talking about theory - I'm a virgin... I just read alot...

[Donkey]

Hi, princemoney! :D

Interesting question you have here... "Sucking" at sex (excuse the pun,) is something that most people will probably do first time over. As stated above with basketball, you can't instantly be great at something when you first start out. So when you first start becoming sexually active, you will be inexperienced.

It's not a problem, however, because usually your partner won't mind (probably because they're inexperienced too!) You'll learn how to do it, like riding a bike. So I haven't had sex, I expect first time I won't be great. Same goes for anyone else.

But don't worry about mucking up, or anything else. Remember that sex is a natural thing so all humans can do it just fine and you're not an exception. Practice makes perfect :D