BOYS survey - When you are dating a girl, how much of the time are you thinking..

[growingjudy]

when will she let me have sex with her?:yes:

[YourFriend]

It isn't bound to time, it depends on your relationship, the stronger it is, the greater the chances are for sex... But you shouldn't be thinking on only sex, there are more pleasurable things in an relationship that can be found.

[Skeln]

^^^Ditto (I might have spelled it wrong).

[Viral Death]

I never think of that. When I am on a date I am on a date with a friend.

[Hughesy]

Honestly, as a bloke who played the field a little bit before deciding to go for a real relationship, I tended to have the mentality of 'How long before I can MAKE her want to have sex with me.' which sounds horrible, it sounds a lot worse than it is, but it was my way of challenging myself, I do feel bad about it, I was one of the luckier guys in High school, I played sport and was one of the jocks.. So yeah.. But I have matured out of it, now the thought is in the back of my mind but more of a 'I wonder when the time will be right?' kind of mindset. Now my relationship is based on getting to know my partner and really connecting with them in more ways than sexually.

[Aves]

I wouldn't think about it, that's not what a relationship is for. (but I've been single for 15 years)

[frothinsam]

honestly yeah it does come into consideration

[orangecounty]

Well usually I only think that when the situation is right, like when we are kissing or something (when there is some obvious sexual tension in the air). But that side of my brain shuts off when we are just talking or hanging out because usually I enjoy her company.